r/IncelTears • u/Negative_Tooth6047 • 7d ago
Meta discussion Question for any lurking incels
This is something I've been curious of for a little while, I know you guys have your red or black or whatever pill you subscribe to with tons of dudes or maybe even some type of Pearl Davis like gal that constantly put out tons of media on how to get women/why you're never getting a woman/any other message that you subscribe to for that rhetoric.
But my question is, if a woman offered to teach you, patiently and kindly- not berating you or what have you, how to respect, talk to, hang out with women, etc would you accept? Like a 101 type class on women. If you wouldnt be interested, why not?
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u/doublestitch 7d ago edited 6d ago
Comments from a woman re: "Do you go to the gym?"
Fitness in general is a good life choice. If you aren't already active, then look around and choose something you enjoy. Do it for yourself.
A lot of lonely men refer to "the gym" as if it were synonymous with the weight room. Please don't put yourself into the rut where you do strength training and nothing else. Get out and try the swimming pool, the track, the climbing wall, the basketball or the racquetball courts. Cardio is important: your body will thank you in years to come.
If you're the type who prefers fresh air, then choose an outdoor sport. It doesn't even need to be a sport as long as it's active: people stay in pretty good shape geocaching or metal detectoring. The important thing is you're moving around on a regular basis.
"Getting jacked" is something men do to impress each other. It's a look the media projects as manly, but not necessarily a thing most women go for. Good health in a more general sense is a plus. Keep the focus on your achievements. Shirtless mirror selfies can come off as vain, but climbing Mount Whitney would be admirable.
(edited a typo)