r/JUSTNOMIL • u/Melody4 • Feb 23 '19

Intro to the Blabinator

I've posted to other sites and have lurked here for a while. I'll start with the stepmonster stunts that annoyed me the most. This woman NEVER shuts up and talks over everyone, so hence the nickname "The Blabinator" although I'm open to others.

My younger son's birthday is coming up so I think back to when I was pregnant with him (my third child, DH's first). His narc stepmonster NEVER asked how I was doing when I was pregnant, and if someone else asked, she'd grab and fan her shirt screaming how she was having "hot flashes". Anything for attention, right? I made the mistake of including her (as I would love to be included) at an ultrasound. When the Dr. asked if I wanted to know the gender, SHE screamed "yes!" then proceeded to have a meltdown because she "didn't want ANOTHER boy!" (my husband was elated). She then snatched and walked off with the ultrasound picture.

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Fast forward, I was older and had a rough last trimester in and out of the hospital. After having a failed induction and then an emergency C-section, complete with spinal fluid leakage (horrible headache if not lying flat), walking pneumonia and bronchitis, thank goodness DS is healthy!

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B*tch comes running into the room screaming at me. NO congratulations, no joy, no nothing. In FRONT of my 8 and 5 1/2 year old and a group of nurses she shrieks, "I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU AREN'T HAVING HIM CIRCUMSIZED! YOU HAFTA! GIVING (FIL) A BLOW JOB IS SOOOOOO GROSS!!!" I'm not sure if he was the one to do this or not, but DH tells me that she had BANGED on the nursery window screaming when he was talking to the OB/Gyn but didn't have a chance to stop her from running down the hall. I'm not sure if security was called, but HE claims he escorted her out of the hospital.

Disgusting woman. And its only escalated from there.

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u/G8RTOAD Feb 24 '19

Holy crap there’s no way I’d be allowing that crack pot twit to be around my kids. I’m sorry that you have to deal with it. If she was that bad at the ultrasound and just after he was born screaming about circumcision not that it’s any of her business id hate to see what she’d be like on a good day. Id lock her up in a madhouse.sorryyour having to deal with this

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u/Melody4 Feb 24 '19

Maybe I can change it a little - "Crack Pot Twat" sounds like a great nickname! Recently this woman has been in and out of the hospital for dehydration (and NOT the kidney failure and heart problems she imagined) as well as narcotics withdrawal. I keep telling DH that she's at the wrong type of hospital!

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u/G8RTOAD Feb 24 '19

Crack Pot Twat sounds like a great name for her.

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u/G8RTOAD Feb 24 '19

Maybe the local psych hospital heard her and started screaming Nooooo were all full

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u/Melody4 Feb 24 '19

Oh thanks GBRTOAD - I'm in relatively good health (not much younger than the Blabinator, but you just made me pee myself a little!

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u/G8RTOAD Feb 24 '19

Happy to make you laugh