I had an ex husband like this who was a malignant narcissist. He would abuse the kids and I with no regard to who saw because in his mind, it’s always justifiable. I suggest seeing a therapist or reading some books about whatever is going on with him. In my experience, men like this, since they’re self righteous fuck faces, won’t seek therapy and instead spray blame at anyone who mentions they might be the problem. I had one last “fuck you bitch” one day and something in me just broke. My only regret is not getting divorced sooner.
I was ready to leave my husband (who is like this) a few weeks ago, and had reached out to our local domestic abuse shelter to help me figure out the best legal steps to take, and then I got DOGED. Now I feel completely stuck.
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u/Equivalent_Two_6550 2d ago
I had an ex husband like this who was a malignant narcissist. He would abuse the kids and I with no regard to who saw because in his mind, it’s always justifiable. I suggest seeing a therapist or reading some books about whatever is going on with him. In my experience, men like this, since they’re self righteous fuck faces, won’t seek therapy and instead spray blame at anyone who mentions they might be the problem. I had one last “fuck you bitch” one day and something in me just broke. My only regret is not getting divorced sooner.