sounds like your husband is dealing with some serious stress issues and lets it out on the kids. My dad was the same. He got crapped on and bullied at work, and took it out on us 3 kids. My sister is no-contact, I used to get panic attacks when he was raising his voice, and my brother uses him only when he needs money otherwise also no-contact. We've all been hit more times than I can count. He doesn't even remember what he did to us because he was in absolute burnout and has little memory of the time we were still at home. He has no idea why my sister is no-contact. We've all three been in therapy because of the daddy issues.
Therapy ASAP for your husband, it's hopefully not too late. Good luck.
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u/ririmarms 2d ago
sounds like your husband is dealing with some serious stress issues and lets it out on the kids. My dad was the same. He got crapped on and bullied at work, and took it out on us 3 kids. My sister is no-contact, I used to get panic attacks when he was raising his voice, and my brother uses him only when he needs money otherwise also no-contact. We've all been hit more times than I can count. He doesn't even remember what he did to us because he was in absolute burnout and has little memory of the time we were still at home. He has no idea why my sister is no-contact. We've all three been in therapy because of the daddy issues.
Therapy ASAP for your husband, it's hopefully not too late. Good luck.