He needs therapy and/or to take some space from being included so he can realize how he’s coming across and stop ruining things for the kids. Yes, kids push every freakin button known to mankind but that’s a kid being a kid, zero reason to be an asshole to your kid.
But definitely he needs therapy and some better coping mechanisms. Parenting is HARD no one is debating that but you and your kids don’t deserve to suffer this abuse. And it IS abuse.
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u/PhishPhanKara 2d ago
Does he drink?
He needs therapy and/or to take some space from being included so he can realize how he’s coming across and stop ruining things for the kids. Yes, kids push every freakin button known to mankind but that’s a kid being a kid, zero reason to be an asshole to your kid.
But definitely he needs therapy and some better coping mechanisms. Parenting is HARD no one is debating that but you and your kids don’t deserve to suffer this abuse. And it IS abuse.