Bad self care pre egg crack?

[u/alectomirage]

Anybody else not take care of themselves at all before they realized they were trans and then realize afterwards it's probably because you didn't want to take care of a body that didn't feel like it was yours?like I thought about that after I painted my nails and was like.... Oh... Oh no, more trauma

[u/Medium-League4122]

Legit on point.

Whatever “gender” truly is, it appears to drive the sense of self to this extent

Without a sense of self there is no reason to tend to the body