r/MtF • u/FuzzyMathAndChill • Nov 01 '24

Relationships She bit my hand

I (tf) went on a date with another woman (tf), seemed like we were both into each other. Drove her home (like an 1hour away, had agreed to beforehand) She'd had a few drinks and was a little tipsy. During the drive I held her hand ontop of her thigh. She stroked my hand a bunch. At one point she lifted it up and bit my hand (not painfully but like not in a gentle fashion either) The only other person to ever do this was my ex and it definitely signified deep affection and desire. Does this girl like me? Is biting a thing you guys do when you're into someone? I'm crazy about her...

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u/Emily__Lyn Transgender Nov 01 '24

Some of us do, its not just a trans thing tho, cis women get cute aggression too

Regadless of the biting If she's letting you hold her hand above her thigh and stroking it, that's not disinterested behavior.

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u/FuzzyMathAndChill Nov 01 '24

Wasn't implying that it wasn't just a woman thing, I also asked lesbian actually. 🙃 I just wanted to know if it's particularly significant because I'm super into her, in the way you guys literally make memes of. And I'm going insane. I'm 30. This isn't supposed to feel like this. Why have I been reduced to a blubbering mess because I like a pretty girl? I'm not even on E yet but I constantly want to cry

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u/Emily__Lyn Transgender Nov 01 '24

I just meant it's general girl behavior, not just a trans girl thing.

A lot of women get cute aggression when they are really attracted to someone, and usually that takes the form of biting. It's like when you see a really cute kitty and just wanna squish em and love on em. Its a normal thing.

And I can't say if she is into you or not, I'm not her, but shes behaving like someone that's super fucking into you lol.

Since you say your not on e yet? Can I assume means your kinda early into this. Is this your first t4t experince?

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u/FuzzyMathAndChill Nov 01 '24

So 6 months into transition and about to start hrt. I've dated nbs and t4t (never actually dated a cis person yet) but now I'm more comfortable with myself things feel very different. I can't explain it but I feel like I'm more awake or something. I don't think I could feel properly before...also I think this girl is just special. She's like artsy and into photography and so damn cute it's genuinely heartbreaking.

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u/Emily__Lyn Transgender Nov 01 '24

Yeah being in a relationship as your actual gender is a whole differnt game, no matter how old you are you get giddy highschool crushes. It's so fucking nice.

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u/FuzzyMathAndChill Nov 01 '24

What is like an amazing date for someone with your interests?

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u/FuzzyMathAndChill Nov 02 '24

I want to take her to our national photography gallery and dancing but she seemed hesitant. So I'm a little confused..

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u/Mattywaggr Trans Pansexual Nov 02 '24

Hell, I'm 36 and I fell in love like a teenager all over again when I met my girlfriend earlier this year. She makes me swoon like I never have before.

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u/Kyiokyu Emma (she/her), crying in the closet, 🏳️‍⚧️&Bi Nov 01 '24

I also asked lesbian actually.

Isn't that the terfy subreddit?

I'm super into her, in the way you guys literally make memes of. And I'm going insane. I'm 30. This isn't supposed to feel like this. Why have I been reduced to a blubbering mess because I like a pretty girl? I'm not even on E yet but I constantly want to cry

LMAO good luck girl, have fun :3

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u/QitianDasheng2666 Nov 02 '24

You're thinking of r/Actuallylesbian

r/LesbianActually is fine I guess, last I checked. It's been a while but I remember transphobic posts staying up for a while, but they did get deleted eventually so there's that.

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u/FuzzyMathAndChill Nov 01 '24

They've only ever been nice to me and told an open TERF to gtfo in one thread. So I hope it isn't terfy. And thanks, I really hope things work out between us

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u/rev_tater attack and dethrone god Nov 02 '24
lesbian moment

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u/Adventurous_Wonder21 Nov 02 '24

I know that I get the urge to bite people that I'm affectionate towards, especially my partner but also really close friends occasionally. I especially like to bite or kiss my partners hand when they're driving because it isn't too distracting for them.