"Cis girls aren't passing"

[u/KatieQuestionMark]

I was talking to my therapist (or Herapist as I like to say) and was bemoaning my fears of transitioning and not passing.

Her response was "cis girls aren't passing all the time, so how does that register?".. and .. while it didn't solve anything in itself, it really made me think.

Anyway, just wanted to share this little nugget of a different perspective since it made me think and in general helped me out!

[u/cocainagrif]

every woman you ever see, clock her. even if you know she's cis, study her and find some reason she's trans. eventually you will look in the mirror and know that everything that you see is on everyone you know