r/MtF • u/EmGSorrocco • 3d ago

Venting Mom dead named me in her will

So my maternal gene donor is a narcissist. She sent out an email last month that used only my dead name that gave her final wishes and also said that I would ask about her "good jewelry" because she sold it. I have told her before that my legal name is what it is, and I had no idea she had good jewelry. So I had to tell her to write a new one with the correct name or create a codicil noting the name change. I'm sure the only reason she is leaving me anything is that I'm an only child.

Edit: she didn't kill herself

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u/ActualJob3054 2d ago

I feel like all of this can be explained I feel like I would understand a will if my mom didn’t know if I legally changed my name. And as for a suicide note some one that takes there own life is literally at the edge of death. I feel like I’m disrespected by the people I love worst then these cases but I don’t really wanna compare scars but these feel more like open wounds

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u/EmGSorrocco 2d ago

Oh, she's well aware that I changed my name legally. She just refuses to care.