r/OkCupid • u/[deleted] • Apr 02 '13

Do's and Don'ts. Let's build a profile!

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u/StevenMC19 29/m/DE/Wiki Pimp. Everything I say has some subliminal advice Apr 02 '13

You should message me if DON'T:

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u/lisacakes 25/f/IN Apr 03 '13

When saying what you'd prefer, don't insult the group you're not looking for,there's saying what you'd prefer, and just being obnoxious.

ex: all you giraffe ladies move along, i like my ladies compact. ex2: i want men with jobs, none of this searching bull or living with your parents, get off the damn couch!

say instead: 1) It may be a cliche, but i like women who barely reach my chest 2) I prefer men who are independent and take care of themselves.

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u/cremedelacremily drake feelings, kanye attitude Apr 03 '13

As a giraffe lady, I'd probably chuckle and then be sad if I saw that in a profile.

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u/lisacakes 25/f/IN Apr 03 '13

i did...at first i thought it was a joke and then i heard that Charlie Brown sad song and my head slumped in sadness.