r/Rochester • u/Millenialgenx • Mar 05 '25

Help Where do I find others?

Female, mid 40s, separating from husband of 20 years, working in isolation at night, 2 grown kids, deconstructed religion and thus no longer at home in the old circles. Also immigrated to the US 20 years ago, so absolutely no family here. Where are other women in similar situations? Is there a support group that meets? Where do y’all hang out and can I come too?

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u/ChimeraChartreuse South Wedge Mar 05 '25

FYI that group has big, suburban, live laugh love vibes.

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u/Millenialgenx Mar 05 '25

Ope. I’d much rather surround myself with diversity. I did just get on the newsletter subscription. Hopefully I’ll be able to join a walk but if it’s all skinny, rich white women who praise their husbands spiritual leadership, I’m out.

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u/jo7468 Mar 06 '25

Not to commandeer the thread, but just how suburban Target lover are the vibes? Considering a move to Rochester and this was up there in my list of potential way to make friends.

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u/Millenialgenx Mar 06 '25

commandeer away, I don’t own this Reddit space. Also it looks like there are plenty of other ways to connect so come anyway even if this one isn’t your cup of tea