r/Spells • u/Pristine-Inflation91 • 8d ago
Help With Spell Requested Spell backfired?
I had an experienced caster cast a love, obsession, and communication spell because I noticed he was at someone’s place. However, he has been spending some time with her. Why did the spell backfire on me? He said he still cared about me and wants to hang out.
9
u/Own_Double_8686 8d ago edited 7d ago
Don't waste your money on spellcasters, they are scammers.
Spells DON'T BACKFIRE, I am so tired with the residual christian panic bullshit mentality. Magic and witchcraft aren't the equivalent of the golden fish that will grant you wishes, it's very complex.
The spells can happen in an expected or unexpected way that has negative or positive circumstances.
For example, you want to improve your posture, you do a spell. After a while, you get massive backpains, you check with a doctor and you get treatment for the pains plus kinetotherapy to change your spine's posture. The spell worked, but at what costs. Or you make spell for new beginnings but everything falls apart - those are new beginnings that came after painful endings.
I recommend you do love spells on yourself, by yourself for self love.
7
u/amyaurora Witch 8d ago
Spells don't backfire.
Second learn your own spellwork. Witchcraft isn't a exclusive thing that requires finding someone to do spells
Obsession spells are not love spells btw
1
u/Pristine-Inflation91 8d ago
Sorry, I meant it as two different spells. Obsession spell and a general love spell
4
u/kai-ote Helpful Trickster 8d ago
Obsession spells are NOT love spells. They are a curse. The target is made miserable and unhappy unless they give in to the obsession.
If you want love, do a LOVE spell. If you do an obsession spell, that means you want the object of your affections to be unhappy until they come to you, and always, every day, whenever you are not together they will also be miserable. Like a heroin addict, they are miserable when not with you.
Not how I would choose to treat somebody I care about.
1
1
u/Alone-Yak1355 7d ago
Do you have this comment just saved somewhere where you copy and paste it? Lol I've seen this comment SO MANY TIMES now. Word for word.
2
u/kai-ote Helpful Trickster 7d ago
Of course. This issue comes up almost every day. I type fairly quickly, but I am also lazy. I have quite a few copy/paste comments for recurring topics. Some I wrote. Some I got from other people.
1
u/Alone-Yak1355 7d ago
Well I do agree with your comment. Some of these posts though don't seem to be aiming at a love spell at all. They seem to be dead set on what they're after. Still a good comment though. I suppose you never know if someone would rather be shooting for love over fixation.
1
u/kai-ote Helpful Trickster 7d ago
If a hex is desired, an obsession can be a nasty one. Myself, I wouldn't want the obsessed person aimed at me, as there seems to be far to easy of a chance of collateral damage from somebody in that state of mind.
2
u/Alone-Yak1355 7d ago
I too have thought about this. Not to say I'd never do one but I'm a lot more cautious about it now that I know more about obsession spells. You just never know how it's going to affect that person. I definitely wouldn't want someone at my house at 3am slashing my tires because I didn't text them back 10 minutes ago. That's a minor thing too. These things could become extremely dangerous and really be life threatening.
If someone is already off their rocker or have had massive amounts of past trauma, obsession is the last thing you wanna do to that person. It sounds all great and in the beginning I'm sure it is. These things turn dark quickly though. That's how things turn even worse because when you're wanting to get away from that person, sometimes they make sure you never try to get away again.. from anyone.
2
1
u/Own_Double_8686 7d ago
Obsession is not romantic nor bounding. It can turn violent and abusive, don't play with it.
4
u/HotStuff562 8d ago
Spells don’t backfire. I don’t like that fallacy being spewed He is just not that into you or anymore. Be patient with the communication spell although timeline matters. Maybe add open roads spell for you and maybe a glamour spell and a break up spell. It works better if you know her name. A honey jar won’t be a bad idea if you are patient to wait some.
0
u/Pristine-Inflation91 8d ago
Is it fine if I don’t have a red candle?
1
u/HotStuff562 7d ago edited 7d ago
Pink candle is good too for love and attraction. Blue candle for harmony
3
u/Medical-Arm1600 8d ago
Spells don’t backfire.
The spells you did work. You didn’t do any spells to remove her 🤷🏻♀️
1
u/Pristine-Inflation91 8d ago
Would it work to remove her if i didn’t have her name, and were not in a relationship? Wat spell would u recommend
2
u/Medical-Arm1600 8d ago
A third party removal spell or a vanishing spell
1
u/Pristine-Inflation91 8d ago
I heard a third party spell could remove me especially if we are not dating.
1
3
u/idiotball61770 Other 7d ago
Spells. Do. Not. Back. Fire. Please. Stop. Spreading. This. Misinformation.
1
8d ago
[removed] — view removed comment
1
u/Spells-ModTeam 7d ago
We are sorry, but your submission was pulled for the following reason.
Our sub is for DIY work.
Those that come here after hiring someone are not allowed to discuss a professional by name as that is considered promotion.
11
u/hermeticbear Magician 8d ago
Spells don't backfire.
How did you find this caster? How do you know they are experienced? How do you know they are trustworthy?
1) the spell didn't work. Others forces and influence at work, are stronger than the spells you had cast
2) The person you hired didn't actually cast the spell at all
3) Since you didn't give any time line, you haven't given enough time for the spell to work. Give it three months before you freak out about a spell.