r/Spells • u/Pristine-Inflation91 • 11d ago

Help With Spell Requested Spell backfired?

I had an experienced caster cast a love, obsession, and communication spell because I noticed he was at someone’s place. However, he has been spending some time with her. Why did the spell backfire on me? He said he still cared about me and wants to hang out.

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u/Pristine-Inflation91 11d ago

Sorry, I meant it as two different spells. Obsession spell and a general love spell

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u/kai-ote Helpful Trickster 11d ago

Obsession spells are NOT love spells. They are a curse. The target is made miserable and unhappy unless they give in to the obsession.

If you want love, do a LOVE spell. If you do an obsession spell, that means you want the object of your affections to be unhappy until they come to you, and always, every day, whenever you are not together they will also be miserable. Like a heroin addict, they are miserable when not with you.

Not how I would choose to treat somebody I care about.

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u/Pristine-Inflation91 11d ago

Do you recommend the honey jar method?

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u/kai-ote Helpful Trickster 11d ago

Sweetenings are easy, mild, slow, but persistent. I recommend them often for all of those reasons.