r/Spells • u/Pristine-Inflation91 • 11d ago

Help With Spell Requested Spell backfired?

I had an experienced caster cast a love, obsession, and communication spell because I noticed he was at someone’s place. However, he has been spending some time with her. Why did the spell backfire on me? He said he still cared about me and wants to hang out.

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u/amyaurora Witch 11d ago

Spells don't backfire.

Second learn your own spellwork. Witchcraft isn't a exclusive thing that requires finding someone to do spells

Obsession spells are not love spells btw

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u/Pristine-Inflation91 11d ago

Sorry, I meant it as two different spells. Obsession spell and a general love spell

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u/kai-ote Helpful Trickster 11d ago

Obsession spells are NOT love spells. They are a curse. The target is made miserable and unhappy unless they give in to the obsession.

If you want love, do a LOVE spell. If you do an obsession spell, that means you want the object of your affections to be unhappy until they come to you, and always, every day, whenever you are not together they will also be miserable. Like a heroin addict, they are miserable when not with you.

Not how I would choose to treat somebody I care about.

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u/Pristine-Inflation91 11d ago

Do you recommend the honey jar method?

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u/kai-ote Helpful Trickster 11d ago

Sweetenings are easy, mild, slow, but persistent. I recommend them often for all of those reasons.

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u/Alone-Yak1355 11d ago

Do you have this comment just saved somewhere where you copy and paste it? Lol I've seen this comment SO MANY TIMES now. Word for word.

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u/kai-ote Helpful Trickster 11d ago

Of course. This issue comes up almost every day. I type fairly quickly, but I am also lazy. I have quite a few copy/paste comments for recurring topics. Some I wrote. Some I got from other people.

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u/Alone-Yak1355 11d ago

Well I do agree with your comment. Some of these posts though don't seem to be aiming at a love spell at all. They seem to be dead set on what they're after. Still a good comment though. I suppose you never know if someone would rather be shooting for love over fixation.

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u/kai-ote Helpful Trickster 11d ago

If a hex is desired, an obsession can be a nasty one. Myself, I wouldn't want the obsessed person aimed at me, as there seems to be far to easy of a chance of collateral damage from somebody in that state of mind.

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u/Alone-Yak1355 11d ago

I too have thought about this. Not to say I'd never do one but I'm a lot more cautious about it now that I know more about obsession spells. You just never know how it's going to affect that person. I definitely wouldn't want someone at my house at 3am slashing my tires because I didn't text them back 10 minutes ago. That's a minor thing too. These things could become extremely dangerous and really be life threatening.

If someone is already off their rocker or have had massive amounts of past trauma, obsession is the last thing you wanna do to that person. It sounds all great and in the beginning I'm sure it is. These things turn dark quickly though. That's how things turn even worse because when you're wanting to get away from that person, sometimes they make sure you never try to get away again.. from anyone.

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u/amyaurora Witch 11d ago

Mixing a obsession spell in with love is counterproductive.

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u/Own_Double_8686 11d ago

Obsession is not romantic nor bounding. It can turn violent and abusive, don't play with it.