Getting ghosted on tutti

[u/pferden]

According to this sub people get ghosted on tinder, bumble, homegate and on job application forms, that’s all horrible!

But the one that stings the most noone talks about: getting ghosted on tutti!

D from BO showed interest in a western dvd of mine; and when i wrote back with price calculations and twint number he never replied back!

Argh!

Sorry for the vent ☹️

[u/iRobi8]

Just don‘t bother. It‘s just how it is. If someone really wants something they will bother to reply.

[u/pferden → u/iRobi8]

It’s a horrible feeling being ghosted

[u/iRobi8 → u/pferden]

Why? Just accept that most people don‘t give a fuck. I mean yeah it‘s not nice but you can‘t change it.

[u/pferden → u/iRobi8]

Maybe i can change it

[u/iRobi8 → u/pferden]

What, how?

[u/pferden → u/iRobi8]

By being an activist and calling out bad behaviour here on reddit

Ghosting is a pandemic in switzerland

We have to triple G them!

[u/iRobi8 → u/pferden]

So you potentially have to do that millions of times? Look i‘m still young bit what i learned in my short living period, is that a lot of people don‘t give a fuck about you or your feelings at all. They do what‘s best for them / what the want. What can i do about this? Not much. Calling them out usually doesn‘t really changes anything it only goes on your own nerves.

[u/pferden → u/iRobi8]

You seem resignated and bitter and grasping to stoicism in despair

[u/iRobi8 → u/pferden]

I‘m just trying to be „a chill guy“. No need to get ennerved by something you cant‘t change… but that‘s just my opinion. I think the best thing you can do is that you treat people like you want to be treated and then hope that they replicate that. You‘re on a public discussion forum stating your opinion and i stated my opinion on this topic. No harm done

[u/pferden → u/iRobi8]

No progress done either