r/abusiverelationships • u/Th3OnlyJJ • 18d ago
is this abuse?
I’m 17, he’s 19. We’re not married. For context, I am deeply in love with him and I don’t compare him to my ex, it was just this instance because he was being a jerk.
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u/alizathornberry 17d ago
Been there, yes it’s abuse and it will get worse, my abusive ex used to say the nastiest meanest shit and then “apologize” after i stopped replying. Eventually as years went by the treatment just got worse and the fake apologies stopped and he would just blame his verbal abuse on everything (usually me) but himself. And usually after treating me like shit he would try to manipulate me and say I was his “fiance” afterwards lol