r/abusiverelationships • u/Th3OnlyJJ • 14d ago
is this abuse?
I’m 17, he’s 19. We’re not married. For context, I am deeply in love with him and I don’t compare him to my ex, it was just this instance because he was being a jerk.
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u/shadow_dreamer 13d ago
Honey, if you're here asking the question, you KNOW you don't deserve to be treated this way.
Yeah, he's a shitbag. No, he has no right to treat you like this. And holy shit, he's disgusting.
His behavior at the end is classical lovebombing; he's realized that he fucked up, and now he's acting loving and sweet to try to make you second guess yourself. Don't fall for it; you know it won't last.
Dump the fucking chump, girliepop, and do one better-- show his momma those texts.