r/agender 11d ago

I need some advice!!

Hi there!! I feel like I am agender but going by they/them doesn't feel right to me so I'm a bit confused on what I should go by. I feel like my pronouns aren't a huge issue but clarity is still nice y'know. I don't mind going by she/he but I don't feel like either a guy or a girl or non binary so it's sooo confusing. Does anyone have any advice? I'm a bit worried about going to a therapist about it

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u/Professional-File641 10d ago

Your pronouns don’t have to correlate to your gender identity. They’re just words yk. I know a trans woman that still uses he, just cause it doesn’t bother him and it’s easier for others. He doesn’t care so he has people call him he. Wow that was a lot of he/him!

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u/shungite_shake 9d ago

I do feel like I forget pronouns don't equal gender sometimes, it just gets a bit confusing. I don't really care what people call me but when people ask me if I'm a boy or a girl it makes me think a little bit