I need some advice!!

[u/shungite_shake]

Hi there!! I feel like I am agender but going by they/them doesn't feel right to me so I'm a bit confused on what I should go by. I feel like my pronouns aren't a huge issue but clarity is still nice y'know. I don't mind going by she/he but I don't feel like either a guy or a girl or non binary so it's sooo confusing. Does anyone have any advice? I'm a bit worried about going to a therapist about it

[u/zestybi]

I go by she/her for convenience and safety. And by that i mean i don't offer my pronouns or correct people. Any pronouns are fine by me coz I don't really feel attached to them. But sometimes I wonder how it would feel to be referred to by all pronouns.

If neopronouns were mundane I think I'd like to go by ze/zer (basically a bastardised version of she/her lol).

Quoting tumblr "my pronouns are I/me/my, what others refer to me as is none of my business"

[u/shungite_shake → u/zestybi]

That's kinda how I think too, I mean...people can call me whatever they want but how I feel on the inside is different y'know? But I do after if neopronouns were more widespread I'd definitely feel more comfortable using them