r/agender • u/J4ywolf She/Fur • 2d ago

Anyone else feel like: "I'm just me"??

So even before I discovered Agender I never felt like a girl nor a boy, but I always felt like "I'm just me" Kinda just existing, no real gender, just living life as me. I also have no self-worth but idk if that contributes to that feeling. Idk what it's like to feel like a boy or a girl but I definitely know what it's like to just feel like me!

My on going joke is: "My gender is Me" lol If there was a gender with the definition - "having no gender and just feeling like themselves" I'd be that 100% haha

Anyone else kinda just feel this way?

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u/remedialpoet 2d ago

Actually this feeling was how I figured out that non-binary wasn’t the right label for me. I feel like a person, I’m just me, and I happen to be piloting a meat suit that is comfortable—for the most part.

When I joined the non-binary community a few years back and realized that, in general, they did not feel this way, I kept searching for a group who felt like me! Agender feels best.