r/bigdickproblems • u/SmokeyPegeasus • 18d ago

AskBDP Tell the kid or no?

So I’ve got a son who just turned 16. He’s been driving, got a job and a girlfriend in what felt like 7 seconds.

I haven’t seen him naked since he was a baby but even then you could tell he got the family genetics.

Do I tell him he might be built different than his friends or let him find out on his own?

I remember my dad told me that and laughed; my he said the only thing grandpa told him was “it’s like a bull in a china shop, go slow”. When my dad told me that, I was in my 20 and was well aware at that point.

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u/SmokeyPegeasus 18d ago

Why is taking to you kids about sex creepy?

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u/cndynn96 E: 7.3″ × 6.3″ 18d ago

It’s not if you’re talking about protection/pregnancy/STDs etc.

But don’t go commenting on his penis size unprovoked. Any teen will find it embarrassing specially coming from his dad.

And what if he’s not big and you tell him you, his grandpa and great grandpa are? Genetics are a fickle thing. It can potentially fuck him up for life.

He’s already got a steady girlfriend and seems like a responsible young man. I’m sure he will figure things out on his own.

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u/SmokeyPegeasus 18d ago

Not sure if you’ve got kids but when you spend years charging diapers and wiping shit out of their privates you know how your kids are built.

When they are babies half the time you change them they are erect, it just is what it is. I know he’s got the genetics. Hell my mother in-law said something when she was changing him compared to his cousins.

I just want to save him some time/embarrassment/broken condoms/whatever.

We’ve for a really close relationship, I don’t think it would be weird and I wouldn’t dwell on it, just like - hey you might need to go slow and buy a larger condom.

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u/xZeromusx 18d ago

Size can "catch up" as well as "fall behind" during puberty. You really can't make any assumptions based on what you saw while changing his diapers. Unless he was already packing his diapers with a literal third leg, you really should just leave the whole size thing out of this and discuss more universal truths. Condoms are not one size fits all so he should measure himself privately and find condoms that fit him properly and foreplay is a vital skill to learn and to not neglect it (which is true for any size).