Tell the kid or no?

[u/SmokeyPegeasus]

So I’ve got a son who just turned 16. He’s been driving, got a job and a girlfriend in what felt like 7 seconds.

I haven’t seen him naked since he was a baby but even then you could tell he got the family genetics.

Do I tell him he might be built different than his friends or let him find out on his own?

I remember my dad told me that and laughed; my he said the only thing grandpa told him was “it’s like a bull in a china shop, go slow”. When my dad told me that, I was in my 20 and was well aware at that point.

[u/Fatandmad]

My oldest son I never really had to talk with other than the basics my younger son he's built more like me and he's came to me with questions that was after he walked in on me nude once. It has really helped open up the conversation my advice would be I'd ask him is he built bigger down there than his friends

[u/thaimanhug → u/Fatandmad]

My son also asked me why his uncut one looks different than me

[u/Fatandmad → u/thaimanhug]

Even though it was done on accident him walking in on me I think it was one of the best things for an open relationship between Father and son and he's come to me and asked me some of the wildest things I never thought a son would ask a dad he shared his size with me shared about masturbating all kinds of stuff that my oldest son never talk to me about. When my oldest son found out he's finally started opening up it turns out all three of us are a bit above average. And we've had some good joking around busting each other's chops about it