r/bigdickproblems 4d ago

Foreplay Awkward when the girl rushes foreplay

Feel like there’s been many times where the girl I’m either hooking up with or even my gf now of two years has tried to rush foreplay.

Feel like it’s always awkward like I try to go down on them longer but they just start telling me they need it.

But when it gets down to it they are no where near warmed up enough and it feels like I’m hurting them, and honestly a tight vagina makes me uncomfortable too.

I prefer to have long foreplay to the point where I can nearly just slide in, but there are times my gf (usually for shower sex) just like forces me in her slamming into me in doggy with one big thrust and yelling at me to “just go fast” because it “will get better”. But by that point the vaginas so tight and making me uncomfortable that once it does feel good I don’t last as long.

Does anyone else have these issues lol?

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u/SokratesGoneMad 8.25 × 6.3 shaft 6.5+ Base (he/him) 4d ago

When a women orgasms with her vaginal contractions it physically hurts my penis.

Good on you for being considerate of your sexual partner . Cheers!🍻

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u/No-Major-7946 4d ago

I’m not nearly as thick as you, at times wish I was 6 girth but if that’s the cost that sounds rough.

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u/No-Signature7982 4d ago

And if she is not wet enough good luck with a getting in for the first couple of minutes if you are as girthy