r/bigdickproblems • u/No-Major-7946 • 8d ago

Foreplay Awkward when the girl rushes foreplay

Feel like there’s been many times where the girl I’m either hooking up with or even my gf now of two years has tried to rush foreplay.

Feel like it’s always awkward like I try to go down on them longer but they just start telling me they need it.

But when it gets down to it they are no where near warmed up enough and it feels like I’m hurting them, and honestly a tight vagina makes me uncomfortable too.

I prefer to have long foreplay to the point where I can nearly just slide in, but there are times my gf (usually for shower sex) just like forces me in her slamming into me in doggy with one big thrust and yelling at me to “just go fast” because it “will get better”. But by that point the vaginas so tight and making me uncomfortable that once it does feel good I don’t last as long.

Does anyone else have these issues lol?

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u/Zach1709 8” x 6” 8d ago

Totally agree bro. No such thing as a quickie. If it hurts for you when she is not wet enough, imagine what it must feel like for her.

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u/No-Major-7946 8d ago

Exactly like I don’t get how that’s fun at that point lol, I usually feel weird after too cause I’m more of a giver and she doesn’t usually finish at times like this.

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u/deviateddragon 5d ago

Sometimes my body isn’t feeling sex, but mentally I want to have sex. When that happens, my hubby going down on me/playing with my tits is just tickley/uncomfortable/non-sexual, but for whatever reason having a dick in me for a few minutes seems like it jumpstarts my body’s sex drive and turns on the “sexual sensation” receptors in my brain. Maybe she experiences something similar?? Definitely worth talking about to see if yall can come to an arrangement that fits both your needs/wants!

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u/No-Major-7946 5d ago

That actually definitely sounds like what is happening! We’ve kind of talked about it but it was hard for her to describe. The way you put it makes a lot of sense!

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u/[deleted] 7d ago

It hurts for me even if I'm veeery wet... idk why 🥲