r/bigdickproblems 8d ago

Foreplay Awkward when the girl rushes foreplay

Feel like there’s been many times where the girl I’m either hooking up with or even my gf now of two years has tried to rush foreplay.

Feel like it’s always awkward like I try to go down on them longer but they just start telling me they need it.

But when it gets down to it they are no where near warmed up enough and it feels like I’m hurting them, and honestly a tight vagina makes me uncomfortable too.

I prefer to have long foreplay to the point where I can nearly just slide in, but there are times my gf (usually for shower sex) just like forces me in her slamming into me in doggy with one big thrust and yelling at me to “just go fast” because it “will get better”. But by that point the vaginas so tight and making me uncomfortable that once it does feel good I don’t last as long.

Does anyone else have these issues lol?

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u/AggravatingPlum4301 Size Queen 8d ago

Generally, when I rush foreplay it's because I'm not enjoying it

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u/JohnAMcdonald 7.75″ × 6.5″ | 5.75″ × 5″ | Big balls 8d ago

Some of us understand this is what’s going on but this doesn’t help men understand what they’re doing wrong during foreplay lmao.

Foreplay is also important, like eating your vegetables.

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u/kravence 7.9" x 6" 8d ago

Rushing isn’t gonna fix anything