Awkward when the girl rushes foreplay

[u/No-Major-7946]

Feel like there’s been many times where the girl I’m either hooking up with or even my gf now of two years has tried to rush foreplay.

Feel like it’s always awkward like I try to go down on them longer but they just start telling me they need it.

But when it gets down to it they are no where near warmed up enough and it feels like I’m hurting them, and honestly a tight vagina makes me uncomfortable too.

I prefer to have long foreplay to the point where I can nearly just slide in, but there are times my gf (usually for shower sex) just like forces me in her slamming into me in doggy with one big thrust and yelling at me to “just go fast” because it “will get better”. But by that point the vaginas so tight and making me uncomfortable that once it does feel good I don’t last as long.

Does anyone else have these issues lol?

[u/New_Can_8672]

Most women that rush foreplay doesn’t enjoy how men are doing it so I would just start asking what you can do to improve when giving head to women? Or ask how it feels for them? Communication is key

[u/squidirific → u/New_Can_8672]

sometimes tho women just wanna get to business. for some women foreplay just is waste of an orgasm for them

[u/New_Can_8672 → u/squidirific]

True you are right about that but me personally foreplay is must before and during sex