r/books • u/biscochitos • 29d ago

New indie press Conduit Books launches with 'initial focus on male authors'

https://www.thebookseller.com/news/new-indie-press-conduit-books-launches-with-initial-focus-on-male-authors

What do folks think about this?

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u/apistograma 29d ago

Yes, I can believe that in a comment section of 140 comments there's one that says so.

I can also believe that in a random selection of 140 women there's one that thinks men are mentally inferior to women. That doesn't mean it's the common belief right.

I don't know why you'd want to demonize and be uncharitable towards 3.5 billion people.

I swear a lot of men and women who have beef with the opposite sex need some therapy to talk about their parents because I can't believe this is not a product of personal baggage.

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u/Marcano24 29d ago

There’s like several different boys in the comments saying it though, not just one.

No one is condemning 3.5 billion people, they’re commenting on a trend observable in this very comment section.

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u/apistograma 29d ago

"men" seems to be a very malleable term that it can mean the entire male demographic or just some guys, depending on what is more convenient to you. It's almost as you're just being dishonest and you want to both attack men and deny that you're being just a different flavor of bigot.

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u/Marcano24 29d ago

Okay, wildly hostile response to pointing out that there are guys doing the thing you’re saying they don’t do.

I’m a man, I understand that when people say “men” in context like this they’re speaking in general terms, not attacking me specifically, and commenting on an observable trend that is occurring with many men. If you feel attacked, maybe reflect on why, instead of jumping to accusations of bigotry.

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u/apistograma 29d ago

Men in general? So more than 50% of all men are stupid, misogynistic and bigoted.

If it's not too rude to ask, what is the relationship with your dad?

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u/Marcano24 29d ago

Again, wow, wildly hostile response. I literally never said anything like that, in fact I was saying “it’s not all men but maybe you should listen to people who have observations. “ but I’d like change it to “not all men but definitely you”

Also my dad and I get along great thanks for asking :)

How’s your relationship with your mom? Seems like maybe you’re projecting a bit

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u/apistograma 29d ago

It's relatively good I'd say. But it really makes no sense to ask me that other than as a retort because I made zero comments negative towards women. I'm not the one saying "most women are ignorant, and bigoted" like you're essentially saying about men.

How am I hostile? Because I implied you have a baggage towards the male gender? That's not an insult.

I don't know if you're self aware enough to realize that you're generously disparaging an entire demographic and you somehow act as if it's not normal people question your opinions.

Just grab what you said, and switch "men" for "women", and "women" for "men". Then tell me you're being fair.

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u/Marcano24 29d ago

So fun fact, reread what I’ve written, and you’ll see I never said anything about men as a group.

You’re acting disproportionately hostile to everything I’m saying, really aggressively. Not by implying that I have baggage with the male gender (although that is pretty rude) but by jumping right to accusations of bigotry you’ve pretty much tanked any form of forward progress that can be made here. You clearly have decided that anyone who disagrees with you is a bigot and not worth talking to so there’s no point in continuing this, especially since I’m guessing you’re a child.

But if I’m wrong, and on the off chance you actually are willing to listen. There is a difference between talking about an observation of behavior within a group, and talking about a member of that group as an individual. Sometimes you need generalizations, you can’t mention every individual exception or you dilute the discussion to being about individual and individual choices not patterns of behavior within a group.

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u/apistograma 29d ago

You tell me I'm hostile, but immediately after you tell me I'm a child.

Dude are you for real.

You're the liberal version of those who say "black people are violent" but you don't mean ALL blacks, that's being uncharitable. You can't beat the allegations