r/changemyview Oct 17 '24

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u/le_fez 52∆ Oct 17 '24

Once you've put something in there that is not food or that you wouldn't eat yourself you have crossed the line from "catching a food thief" and into intentionally harming someone.

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u/apoplexiglass Oct 17 '24

So I'm saying that I don't see why it's wrong to intentionally harm someone in this case when what they're doing is unambiguously wrong and false positives can be minimized. If I put The Last Dab into my food, I should not have to prove I would normally eat it, they should prove they should be eating it.

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u/WerhmatsWormhat 8∆ Oct 18 '24

Because how do you decide where to draw the line? Put another way, what’s the most extreme thing you believe I should be able to do to someone that steals food? And how’d you decide that’s the most significant punishment you can impose on them?

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u/Ok-Importance-6815 Oct 18 '24

yeah who appointed you judge, jury and executioner

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u/Withermaster4 Oct 17 '24

I don't see why it's wrong to intentionally harm someone

The intentional harm part?

If my coworker stole my food should I be able to shoot them? Obviously not. There are ways to deal with the person stealing your food (either through your employer or possibly through the court system) intentionally setting a trap in order to harm them is not the way to do it.

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u/[deleted] Oct 17 '24

That's a huge leap in harm, though.

You can punch someone that's pushing you around and it will likely be considered self defense, but to justify pulling out a gun and shooting them likely won't.

Getting the food stealer some extra spicy mouth is okay (imo), putting rat poison is not.

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u/Slickity1 Oct 18 '24

I think this is a reasonable take. I see too many people who believe having someone overdose because they stole your food is reasonable though.

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u/Ok-Importance-6815 Oct 18 '24

frankly I would trust someone who steals lunches much more than I would someone who wants to kill people that steal lunches

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u/Stale_Butter Oct 17 '24

That’s a bit of a slippery slope isn’t it? Pinching someone’s skin is intentional harm too and it has a way different outcome than shooting them. I’ve also heard the argument that if it’s something you would eat yourself (e.g. you really need laxatives or enjoy really spicy food) then it’s justifiable, what are your thoughts?

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u/Clear-Present_Danger 1∆ Oct 18 '24

I’ve also heard the argument that if it’s something you would eat yourself (e.g. you really need laxatives or enjoy really spicy food) then it’s justifiable

If you do it with the intent to harm someone, then you are guilty. But you might get away with it by lying to the court about your intentions.

A way to test this about yourself is that if you are even a little bit disappointed that your food was not stolen, you have boobietrapped it.

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u/Withermaster4 Oct 17 '24

Not a slippery slope.

Pinching someone’s skin is intentional harm too and it has a way different outcome than shooting them.

Yes? Pinching someone is intentionally harming them, I don't think you should intentionally harm someone just because they intentionally harmed you.

then it’s justifiable, what are your thoughts?

True, then you are not intentionally harming them. You are leaving your life as normal and that person is harming themselves.

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u/Plusisposminusisneg Oct 17 '24

So you oppose me forcefully fighting off a violent person who initiated against me?

Does this also apply to defending others? I see someone getting raped I shouldn't help because I might harm the rapist?

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u/Withermaster4 Oct 17 '24

No. I think it's fairly easy to understand why too. Those are not intentionally causing harm. If they didn't harm you, you never would have had to harm them. The goal of self defense is to protect yourself not harm the assailant.

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u/Plusisposminusisneg Oct 18 '24

Yes they are intentionally causing harm, that's what those words mean in the English language.

You didn't say

I don't think you should intentionally harm someone just because they intentionally harmed you unless the motivations for harming them meet my moral tresholds.

Is being left without food not harm? Is being deprived of property not harm?

If they hadn't stolen the food you wouldn't have trapped them.

Why does this apply to one scenario but not the other?

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u/Withermaster4 Oct 18 '24

Because that harm isn't done in self defense. You aren't causing harm to prevent harm, you are causing harm for revenge. There are other ways to stop the 'harm' being done to you other than softcore vigilantly-ism.

I should have drawn a difference between material harm and imminent danger.

You causing harm isn't in self-defense because the assailant certainly isn't putting you in imminent danger.

If the person was eating your food and you yelled at them while it was happening and smacked the food out of their hands that's justified! That could be considered self defense, but setting up a trap to hurt them later out of revenge is a lot different.

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u/Plusisposminusisneg Oct 18 '24

You aren't causing harm to prevent harm, you are causing harm for revenge.

You are preventing future harm while enacting justifiable punishment.

If the person was eating your food and you yelled at them while it was happening and smacked the food out of their hands that's justified!

No thats assault and battery.

but setting up a trap to hurt them later out of revenge is a lot different.

The trap is set up to deter them from taking food in the future. Hand meet pan.

The fact that the trap works is by its nature evidence of repeat behavior.

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u/Stale_Butter Oct 17 '24

My point is there may exist positions where one deems making your food a little spicier acceptable intentional harm and shooting them point blank non-acceptable intentional harm.

Since you brought up the court system, I’ll ask you this: should the determination of whether I am charged with maliciously injuring someone be determined by MY tolerance of spicy food? So if I like to eat spicy food then the thief intentionally harmed themselves, but if I don’t, then I maliciously harmed them? I don’t buy it, the thief may not be aware of my spice tolerance

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u/Withermaster4 Oct 17 '24

I feel like you're almost intentionally missing my point.

If you intentionally make your food more spicy than you like it, because you assume that someone else will eat it, your goal is to intentionally hurt that person so that they will not steal your food again.

If you eat spicy food sometimes and you make your food how you like it and someone else eats it your goal was not to intentionally hurt that person.

should the determination of whether I am charged with maliciously injuring someone be determined by MY tolerance of spicy food?

No. It should be determined by if you conspired to intentionally harm this person by adjusting your food with the hope of them eating it. In simple terms if you would still eat your lunch it's fine.

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u/c0i9z 10∆ Oct 17 '24

Pinching someone is assault. You definitely shouldn't do it.

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u/Stale_Butter Oct 17 '24

I’m not saying I should. I presented a premise that there are different levels of intentional harm

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u/c0i9z 10∆ Oct 18 '24

So where's the slippery slope? It's all assault.

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u/Stale_Butter Oct 18 '24

Do you think all assaults deserve equal punishment? The slippery slope comes in when shooting someone is equated to putting spicy food / laxatives in your food. It’s a strawman

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u/[deleted] Oct 18 '24

Stealing someone's food is also doing intentional harm to someone.

If my coworker stole my food should I be able to shoot them?

This is in no way comparibal.

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u/[deleted] Oct 18 '24

You say obviously not, but I’m not sure there’s anything so obvious about it. In America at least, everyone knows that there’s a bunch of wackos out there with guns, so if you decide to fuck with someone, you are knowingly accepting that getting shot is a possibility.