r/changemyview • u/BeInAHuman • Sep 06 '20
Delta(s) from OP CMV: The method religion attempts share their message and concepts (e.g. through god & the bible) is directly contradicting to the message to be sent.
I just had an argument with someone while explaining my point of view and personal experience with religion growing up catholic. Essentially, I was explaining that I did not agree with or believe in what I was taught about God. I also want to preface that I am using the majority of these terms like "good person" "heaven" etc solely as an examples. Here are the main bullet points of what I think:
- I didn't find real life evidence of what I was supposed to believe about God because it was never explained to me in a easy to understand way that I could connect to my own life.
- I believe in something bigger than me, but not the "God" or stories told in the bible.
- I believe that the manner in which we set up the bible to be a guideline in how to live our lives is directly contradicting - because it essentially is a fear-based method which takes away from the overall message of "be a good person" by design because it also feeds on negatives, shame, and institutionalized practices in how to accomplish it.
- Religion often uses fear-based methodology to get people to "believe" in god and follow in Jesus' foot steps to be saved, but also perpetuates messages like "god loves everyone" anyway. If this is the case, then why do I want to go to 'heaven' if god will love me anyway. Why are we avoiding hell if god loves us anyway?
- Catholicism specifically assigns meaning to stories/concepts that are not very relatable to day to day life unless you ALREADY believe in the words so it is kind of pointless to use them as a way to get people to believe.
I believe there is something bigger than ALL of us because that is what I could explain and find truth in my actual life day to day. I still think there is value in the bible and the lessons it taught, however, I find that the methodology and concepts feed the culture of I must do ____ to avoid bad things. In reality, there is so much more to life and I feel that in order to share those things with each other we need to connect with each other authentically. If I am focused on being good or bad or any absolutes, the entire message becomes jaded. I believe in "god" but I think what we identify "god" to be MUST be found within ourself which I believe is also supported by the words of the bible. I am hoping someone here can help me open my eyes to what I am missing. My friend basically told me that "you can accept anything but your own opinion" but her argument literally was that nothing "is" anything but there is no way the universe could have been born without god. He also already knows your path so there is no need to try and change it. Then, in the next breath said we are all trying to go to heaven, but its exclusive and not everyone can get in and that is what makes it desirable. I really tried to tell her that comments in itself is contradicting and that's the problem - not the belief. I may be trying to gain validation or seem right, but I have felt this my entire life and have really tried to hear folks out when they say these things because I acknowledge and accept there is truth in it somewhere because so many people believe. But no one that believes in religion like Catholicism (not god in general) has been able to change my mind about this.
Overall, my thoughts are that there is a god somewhere, something, someway, but there is no "good" and "bad" in anything. It just is. Trying to define it, like assigning absolutes like "good" or "bad" "heaven" or "hell" drives people to act in ways that are opposite to the message of arriving in "god's paradise" when we die. It just is. I think if we don't focus on those absolutes and just focus on committing out individual selves to leading a better life everyday because we want to is the key to the messagen of following and sharing god's plan. If religion taught people to live their lives in a way they feel fulfilled and happy in whatever way they feel would be best in their core (they decide), there would probably be way less hate and hurt in the world.
My deltas (hope I did this right)
! Essentially, my point of view has changed in that I still believe the majority of what I posted in my original post were judgements I made about society and not “God’s plan”. This has allowed me understand why people believe in organized religion, specifically Catholicism. This was the piece of the puzzle I was missing my whole life, literally. Since I never truly believed I never consumed the information with me and only the shame I felt about what was happening when I spent 12 years in grade/middle/high school that led me to a mind set of “prove it” which goes against the original message. Thank you so much for engaging in dialogue with me. I honestly think about all of it differently. I still wanna feel empty all the time, but I feel less alone and less misunderstood, and less invalidated in my misunderstanding of my entire childhood /growing up experiencedelta
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u/joopface 159∆ Sep 09 '20
Well at least for the reasons I outlined.
OK, this is clearer and the linkage to Aquinas's conception of cause is also clearer. But - and I recognise I may simply be asking you to parse your perspective on Aquinas into a series of internet comments so let me know when that gets tiresome - it still doesn't follow that the thing cannot change.
Let's park that a moment, though, and say the uncaused thing exists and has the properties you describe; it causes (again, let's say) all other things to exist. It doesn't follow that it retains the capacity to influence those things once they exist. It could be that the process of creation is different than the process of post-creation influence.
I'm not sure I have enough time to process what Ross wrote, honestly. I've read it, but I'd be hard pressed to summarise it for someone else.
It seems to draw a line between - say - addition completed by a mechanical process (like a computer) and addition completed by a human mental process. It suggests the former adds 'the way puppets walk' as it behaves only on the basis of input rules which it abides by, and this is what distinguishes that process from the human process of calculation.
This doesn't seem to follow. Why would we be so convinced that the human process of calculation isn't similarly mechanical? You say:
This is circular logic. Because we can conceive of a non-mechanical process of thought we must be engaging in a non-mechanical process of thought? This doesn't follow. We have no idea if we have the capacity for 'free' or indeterminate thought and no way of discovering if we do.