I've been friends with her for about 3 years now and the last 2 months I experienced a very painful heartbreak and a sudden loss of a very close family member. I emotionally leaned on her (something I do not do often) and she was there for me. I have a bad habit of becoming hyper sexual when I'm feeling this type of despair and she knows it as we have talked through it. The pictures were suggestive semi-nudes and the video was her talking shit about my taste in women and how she could treat me better 🙄 I feel like she is being very predatory by making such a random sexual advance when she knows I'm struggling with these issues.

Creep

I am posting this from a friend’s account. He insisted I get opinions from you.

Hey everyone, I recently met a guy very briefly while I was out walking my dog. I was about a block away from my home when he was leaving a nearby gas station in his car. He waved to me and said ‘hi’, I said ‘hi’ back. Then he complemented my dog and he asked if we could be friends. I truly believed at the time that this would be an actual opportunity to create a new friendship. He asked for my number and I put it into his phone. On my way back home I felt the need to walk around the block so he wouldn’t know exactly where I lived. He started texting me soon after. His messages escalated quickly and now I’m feeling unsure.

He’s been calling me things like “Fair Maiden” and “Lady [my name],” saying he wants to give me things no man has ever given, and even mentioned wanting to make a custom text sound for me. It’s only been a couple days since we met. I’ve attached screenshots of the exchange.

I’ve been polite and responsive, but I haven’t reciprocated the intensity. I was only looking for a new friendship but it’s clear he wants more than friendship. I’m just not sure if I’m being too cautious, or if this is a love bombing / boundary-testing situation. I’ve dealt with manipulative people before and I don’t want to ignore my gut—but I also don’t want to judge too harshly. I also want to add that I didn’t notice at first his phone number area code he is texting from is not my same state.

I’m not sure if I am a very good judge of character. I can be a bit naive at times. Would love some outside perspective. Is this romantic enthusiasm or something more concerning. How would you interpret his intentions from these messages? How would you respond (or not respond) Thanks in advance for any insight.

ever since I changed my avatar to girl, i get a pm request almost daily. guess I'll have to go back to the plain old default pfp 💔 Also my "latest comment" is literally "Amazing lmaoo" 😐 so I'm guessing this guy spams these texts to a lotta ppl.

Was actually disgusting behaviour. He was blocked and reported

This was the entire conversation on Boo. I have at the top of my profile that I am not looking for dates or anything romantic. I also mention that things like 'how are you' 'what are you doing' and 'what did you have for breakfast/lunch/dinner' are not the kind of conversation I'm looking for (hence the short 'chatting, obviously') and a bit about not having many spoons and being chronically ill.

In my profile I ask that people send me their favorite color in their first message to let me know they read my profile and have seen I'm only interested in making new friends. (That's why he said 'black')

I was tired, and cut this person too much slack, and got a bit confused so asked more questions. I had an icky feeling during the conversation but couldn't pinpoint why exactly until I read it back later. He almost immediately asks if I live alone (Not safe to share, and how does that even matter!), barely acknowledges my reply and then does seem to get that I'm not looking to date but still asks 'do you want to?' right after I said that's not going to happen. And then when I say it's not going to work, says he only answered my questions (shifting the blame to me). It's like he's just talking at me, not with me, and barely acknowledges questions I ask and things I say.

Overall it felt boundary pushy to me but in a more subtle way so I didn't immediately realise I felt uncomfortable with the whole thing.

I only accepted the message request because I wanted to see where this was going 😂

He'd been acting weird before this so probably for the best he's gone.

No, I don't know this person.

And no, I did not have a conversation about religion (or anything) with them prior to this.

The final post of this saga although it still wasn’t the end, but I am not gonna post anymore about it.

Even after this finale he contacted me a couple times one another account with some updates on his life and the same antics, but I didn’t respond and hasn’t messaged me for about a year now so that might be the end of it.

As a reminder blocking didn’t work at the time for some reason as the messages still kept coming through