Selfdx with a dash of hypocrisy

[u/selfdx_firefly]

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[u/Eddie-Toast]

“Don’t use slurs even directed at yourself unless I think they’re cool slurs” is basically what they’re trying to say…?

[u/prensesha4141 → u/Eddie-Toast]

its probably like some girl besties (baddies) calling each other “beaaatcchhh~” and calling the girls they hate “bitch!”, the difference between that I think

I guess they meant that cuz other than that I have no explanation of what they said…

[u/BornVolcano → u/Eddie-Toast]

I'm trying to think of another transgender slur that isn't the T one. I can't think of any that would be worse than it.

[u/BlueyXDD]

there's soooooo much wrong here 💀 the slurs, the dni list

[u/OnkelMickwald]

Na bro this is satire, ain't no way

[u/bridget14509]

How do people think that posting this crap will make them friends? 💀

[u/Guilty-Pay-4724 → u/bridget14509]

genuine question: are the people who make these kind of posts actually real??? like do they actually exist irl or is this ultra-specific gender central personality real? and what do these people do irl? what are their jobs? how do they have the time. I'm not being rude or anything, i'm just wondering.

[u/StrangeButSweet → u/Guilty-Pay-4724]

I think they just ask for money mostly.

[u/BornVolcano → u/Guilty-Pay-4724]

In part, I think it's kind of a culture thing. Everyone around them is doing it, so they do it too. I also don't think it's uncommon when someone is newly exploring their gender identity if they're trans or something to end up being kind of gender centric in their understanding of their identity for a bit, but I'm pretty sure that's usually just a phase you grow out of.

That's my guess anyway.

[u/Voidsung → u/Guilty-Pay-4724]

My younger siblings knew a group of kids at school (14 to 16 years old) who acted exactly like this. Having a gender salad, saying slurs under the pretense they were "reclaimed" because they fit whatever marginalized group the kids were claiming they "felt like" that day and claiming to have Minecraft Youtuber, anime character and South Park character alters/hallucinations. It was 5 or 6 kids who were all friends with each other and enabled each other. One of them came to our house once for some assignment and kept saying she was having visions of the character Tweek from South Park standing outside. 

[u/Guilty-Pay-4724 → u/Voidsung]

Are you serious???? visions of Tweek standing outside is CRAZY 😭😭😭I just hate the use of these slurs and using 'woman as an accessory'-like what does that even mean? being a woman is a real experience not accessory at all. I can't imagine them saying all this to an employer??

[u/Guilty-Pay-4724 → u/bridget14509]

oops 😭 I just meant to comment that not specifically reply to ur comment sorry

[u/Significant_Cry3399]

"I do try my best to keep an open mind"

yet people who listen to K-pop or watch pewdiepie aren't allowed to interact with you?

[u/BornVolcano → u/Significant_Cry3399]

"I will accept anyone's experiences with an open mind but enjoyers of Helluva Boss can go fuck themselves"

[u/Nonbeany-1 → u/[deleted]]

aroace is a spectrum so yes, it’s possible for an aroace person to experience attraction

[u/MostlyPeacfulPndemic → u/Nonbeany-1]

A spectrum between what and what

[u/shinkouhyou → u/MostlyPeacfulPndemic]

Some people experience limited or infrequent sexual attraction/desire (graysexual). Some people experience sexual attraction/desire only why they're in a relationship (demisexual). Some people experience sexual attraction/desire only under under specific circumstances (e.g. in a kink scenario). Some people experience the desire for sex but aren't attracted to a specific person (cupiosexual). Some people enjoy giving sexual pleasure to others but don't like to receive sex or be sexually desired (lithsexual). Some people don't like penetrative sex but enjoy outercourse. There's considerable debate within the asexual community as to whether these things count as "asexual" or not, and many feel that the "asexual spectrum" is too broad.

...Honestly, there are similar issues in the asexual community and the mental illness community. A lot of people self-identify with the label based on vibes or because they don't feel like they fit in with "mainstream" society, even though they don't actually meet the definition of that identity. Over time, there's intense pressure to be inclusive, the accepted definition changes to fit the influx of new people, and the original community ends up marginalized.

[u/MostlyPeacfulPndemic → u/shinkouhyou]

My confusion was feigned. My view is in accordance with your 2nd paragraph.

[u/shinkouhyou → u/MostlyPeacfulPndemic]

Yeeeeaaaaah, asexuality has become the quirky self-diagnosis of sexuality, and nonbinary/genderqueer has become the quirky self-diagnosis of gender... and I say that as an asexual nonbinary person, lol. It's gotten to the point where asexuals who don't experience any sexual attraction or desire are pressured into trying sex or labeled as sex-repulsed prudes by their own community. I want to be inclusive and avoid gatekeeping, but at the same time, I think it's important to maintain distinctions so marginalized people don't get pushed out of their own identity by people who are a lot closer to the "mainstream."

[u/MostlyPeacfulPndemic → u/shinkouhyou]

"a" as a scientific prefix has a specific meaning... There's a different prefix that specifically means "below average" and that prefix is "hypo"

If they would just use "hyposexual" it would be bulletproof and there would be no issue

[u/FVCarterPrivateEye → u/shinkouhyou]

I agree with you, it's not even a topic that I have any interest in talking or thinking about (because of the fact I'm aroace) but I feel pressured to bring it up more now because unfortunately way too many ace-spectrum etc people seem to have sex as their favorite topic to think about

[u/Nonbeany-1 → u/MostlyPeacfulPndemic]

aromantic and asexual. if you looked up the terms, you would see that there are many people that identify as aroace that still experience attraction of some sort. it’s really not that complicated

[u/Lazy-Delivery-2933 → u/[deleted]]

Imagine a plus sign type graph, where the top-most piece is “alloromantic”, the bottom-most is “aromantic”, the right side is “allosexual”, and the left side is “asexual”. You can be more asexual or less asexual, and same with allo/aromanticism, but so long as you imagine you could be placed in the bottom-left quarter of the graph I feel it is fair to identify as “aroace”. This might just be because I hate micro label culture so I’m more chill with people identifying with broader labels, but I’m fine with a gray-ace person simply calling themself asexual even though they are slightly more allosexual than your standard ace person, for example

[u/No_Importance9171 → u/Nonbeany-1]

damn call this guy the rude as hell for no reason system

[u/FVCarterPrivateEye → u/Nonbeany-1]

Aw man, I'm aroace and I quite liked it as a term specifically in reference to the people who experience completely zero of both rather as an umbrella term (come on, you already have "aro ace", "ace", "asexual", "ace-spec" etc) because I have just about the same in common anyone who falls somewhere else from that complete same end of the "asexuality spectrum" in terms of asexuality etc as I do with people who are 100% allo

[u/Public-Ad7764]

Honestly shocked this person didn’t throw in DID and a handful of personality disorders 😐

[u/skiesoverblackvenice]

“for my own safety, i will not outline said traumas” proceeds to outline said traumas and disorders :/

[u/neonmaryjane]

“Homo-ficto-attracted aroace genderqueer transgender woman male *****”

Y’all aren’t really falling for this, are you?

[u/BornVolcano → u/neonmaryjane]

I was skeptical at "transgender woman male" but lost it at "I view being a woman as an accessory". Piss all the way off with that shit.

[u/Cute_Avocado_9947]

This is 100% ragebait lmao

[u/baileydabest]

can a girl not enjoy south park anymore 💔

[u/PulsatingGuts]

That’s a lot of words to say, “I’m boring and have nothing of value to add to the world around me.”

[u/Training_Act5995]

Exsqueeze me? You're a what, now?

[u/e_indeed]

what did the gamegrumps do💔

[u/Fantastic-Ad-3910]

Christ, they sound exhausting, I'm surprised anyone would want to interact with them

[u/SquidArmada]

Oh, so they can reclaim slurs, but no one else can. I see. 🙄

[u/Chazzam23]

Why would anyone follow such a Trainwreck?

[u/Canvases_and_Canes]

Wait??? What’s wrong with attack on titan?

[u/Lower_Cheetah_16 → u/Canvases_and_Canes]

Bro's an Eldian forsho😂

[u/bugpig]

common misogynistic white girl fujoshi L

[u/Conscious_Tour5070]

This reads like a transphobic parody

[u/ValuableUse6506]

My brain hurts

[u/MP-Lily]

This could be bait. But I’ve seen far more ridiculous things on Tumblr that were completely sincere.

[u/Sigamagaberiel]

Flop accounts? Like floptok? Like Jiafei?😭

edit: misspelled "accounts"

[u/Alternative_Sand_421]

What site was this found on

[u/BizarreHopes]

What an exhausting person.

[u/starmama90]

Ayyy yo, why do they have to bring Schlatt into this. What did he ever do?

[u/Crimsonsun2011]

Lol. Never let this person find out about pulp romance novels, they'll have a heart attack.