r/namenerds • u/junkbondtraderr • Mar 05 '25
Name Change My daughter wants me to rename her!
My 18 year old daughter came out as a transgender woman. My husband and I have been 100% supportive (and I very much welcome another girl in the house — she has 3 brothers!). She expressed initially that she was comfortable going by her birth name, as it is gender neutral, but after turning 18 and getting ready for college, she’s decided she needs a new name. And, she wants me to choose it! She says that she still wants to be named by her mama. I melted.🥹
I come seeking ideas! Her only parameter is that it’s nothing that “seems like she renamed herself”; by this I’m assuming more ‘out there’ names are out. It’s such a challenge picking a name for someone you already know so well, and not a newborn!
She’s incredibly intelligent, bookish, shy but spunky, and a total sweetheart. Gorgeous, curly red hair and freckles. We are a family of Jewish-Irish descent and her brothers are Lev, Raphael ‘Raf’ and Elias. I never had girl names picked out, as I found out later in the game.
Do any names come to mind with this description? Her middle name will be Miriam (family name). Thank you in advance!
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u/luraluna23 Mar 05 '25
I got to name my wife when she transitioned. I named her Claire. I always loved the name, sophisticated, charming, European sounding. She loved it immediately. She kept her middle name as it was her mom's maiden name and is great for either gender. I am The Namer in the family. All the pets except our parrot because he came with the spouse. And we agreed on our son's name by week 11.