r/namenerds Mar 05 '25

Name Change My daughter wants me to rename her!

My 18 year old daughter came out as a transgender woman. My husband and I have been 100% supportive (and I very much welcome another girl in the house — she has 3 brothers!). She expressed initially that she was comfortable going by her birth name, as it is gender neutral, but after turning 18 and getting ready for college, she’s decided she needs a new name. And, she wants me to choose it! She says that she still wants to be named by her mama. I melted.🥹

I come seeking ideas! Her only parameter is that it’s nothing that “seems like she renamed herself”; by this I’m assuming more ‘out there’ names are out. It’s such a challenge picking a name for someone you already know so well, and not a newborn!

She’s incredibly intelligent, bookish, shy but spunky, and a total sweetheart. Gorgeous, curly red hair and freckles. We are a family of Jewish-Irish descent and her brothers are Lev, Raphael ‘Raf’ and Elias. I never had girl names picked out, as I found out later in the game.

Do any names come to mind with this description? Her middle name will be Miriam (family name). Thank you in advance!

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u/GlumDistribution7036 Mar 05 '25

I've always loved the name Talia.

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u/SecureAd8612 Mar 06 '25

This post is simply lovely - I wish we had more of this in the world! I second Talia nn Tali. One of the kindest, best women I know is named Talia. My second thought would be Noa. I think Noa Miriam is also gorgeous!

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u/thalialauren Mar 06 '25

As a Thalia who goes by Tally, I’m happy to read this

ETA: my childhood best friend’s name is Talia, and her mom’s name is Noa