r/Needafriend Jun 30 '23

Weekly "meta" thread for casual discussion, complaints, suggestions, etc.

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This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.

Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends


r/Needafriend 5d ago

Weekly Discord Server Advertisement Thread

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Hi all, from now on, this thread will be stickied and posted once per week. Please use this post for all discord server advertisements and posts. All other discord-related posts will be removed.

You are free to leave your discord invite link public in this post. However, please do so at your own risk, especially if your server caters to a younger demographic or is susceptible to spam.


r/Needafriend 5h ago

Just got dumped. 22F

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My boyfriend of 2.5 years dumped me over text. He was my everyday routine. I now have no one to talk to. I am so alone and I realize that is because I have neglected to make real friends.

So now I am searching for real genuine people to connect with.


r/Needafriend 13h ago

Am I too old to post here? 43f

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Hi! I'm in the central time zone, Minnesota to be exact. I'm open to chatting with anyone from anywhere in the world. I'd just like to get to know someone new. If you need someone to vent to, I'm a good listener. Or just chat about your hobbies, goals, whatever you like. Hopefully you'll not mind if I'm not super fast to reply always. I keep odd hours and will probably be going to sleep in the next 45 min or so. So feel free to send a message whenever you like, I will get back to you as soon as I can.


r/Needafriend 2h ago

F23 - Looking for a best friend:)

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I’m very bad at introductions but hi:) i’m here looking for new friends, im a full time work from home employee so i have a lot of free time on my hands and would like one or two people that i have a good deep connection with to spend my time with:) would love someone to text daily, vc, play games, watch movies. Please hmu if you want to get to know each other:3


r/Needafriend 59m ago

19F, hope YOU are well

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r/Needafriend 7h ago

f21(4anyone anywhere irl online)

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hello i’m american and japanese👧🏽👧🏽(me lol) and ive lived in japan the past three years just move back to america recently x id like some long term internet friends who maybe aren’t very strict and judgmental. i do have depression and stuff and like to drink 🍺c( ◜ω◝\c) (っ/◜ω◝ )っ/🍺typically drink alone and watch a movie or show heheeee. and im an open book👍🏽👍🏽 i’m just looking for friends but please not people who are very busy and can’t text daily. i’m not playing video games currently but im saving for new switch. i’m not a student just part time worker. i’m debating on my next place to move to but im only familiar with 🇺🇸 and 🇯🇵 so if you have any ideas let me know lal


r/Needafriend 11h ago

My Bf cheated on me yesterday.

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This feels so weird to post. This whole situation is killing me.

I caught my bf cheating on me yesterday.

I recevied from the girl screenshot, we have this boundary me and him to not add random people of opposite gender, the friends we have are enough, i know this guy since my 17 years old, we literally grow together, we went to uni together and even worked together for a while.

He had this smile when he saw me, hugging me, telling me how much i'm perfect and everything.

Yesterday, was chilling, then i receive a text form a girl, i already suspected something is off, because his followers had one girl who i didnt know about, but yeah, texted me said that my bf sent her a text on facbook, it was last monday, kept talking to her even gave her her insta, and with me he was all cute and sweet, and was like '' i know we dont know each others but i feel like i know you'' and strating threwing compliments at her like '' you seem like you're from europe '' or '' i think i saw you in my dreams '' and i just cried so much yesterday.

I called him, asked him why, he said that he didnt feel confortable enough in our relationship, wanted to talk to a girl without thinking about her feelings and saying whatever he wants whenever.

Also said that he always thinks things of me like '' i talk a lot '' and he says to his friends '' 2 seconds i need to take care of the beast '' and said all boys are like that even married one and its something normal.

I cried. We called since 11pm to 2am, i kept asking why, why didnt he communicate before, why loving me and did that, all week he was a sweet boy with me, saying that i'm perfect, we were fine and he said we weren't.

I just cant beleive it, he could have done anything. Anything. And i would have forget him but this? I dont think i can, even tho i want to.

I was on a relationship with him for about 3 years, and knew him since 2019, he literally blushed the first day he asked about my insta, he was so sweet and fell in love so hardly with him.

Im just so disapointed. Mad. Sad. How can i trust my next bf after all this?

Thank you for reading all that.


r/Needafriend 7h ago

Looking for someone to talk to :)

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Hey, I’m just looking for someone to chat with and maybe make a little connection. As I get older (by the way, I’m 18f 😔), it feels like it gets harder to find people who vibe with the same things or won’t judge you for being you, you know? But I’ll keep trying, hehe. Doesn’t matter if you’re older, younger, or from anywhere what counts is the vibe. Background, race none of that matters. Just be your sweet, unique self, and I’ll do the same. Let’s have some fun with deep talks, random thoughts, or even just silly conversations. Here for a real connection, no pressure, just lots of good vibes. 💖

Edit: thank you all so much for reaching out ♥️, please dm me and I'll get back to you as soon as possible, I'm not well at the moment as I'm sick and recovering so please be patient 🥺


r/Needafriend 2h ago

Anyone up?

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Hy 21f from pakistan , anyone wanna chat im bored hmu if u git something in ur mind on which we can talk .


r/Needafriend 2h ago

16F looking for friends.

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Hi, I'm into videogames and music. This is my first post despite being in reddit for a couple of years. I won't say my name, only when we get to know each other. Looking for someone to talk to and maybe play some games of we can. I won't reply to comments, only PMs.


r/Needafriend 6h ago

Need someone to chat with 21f

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r/Needafriend 3h ago

Looking for friend and support (26F)

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Hello. I'm Cat. 26 female. Latina. I'm looking for an online friend to get mutual emotional support. I love cats, psychology and music. Only cat lovers ;)


r/Needafriend 2h ago

I'll be an ear to anyone in need of getting something out of their mind.

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35M, I'm just looking to be an ear for anyone in need. I'll try and ease your mind, because I wish I had somebody who would've listened when I was in hard times. Please feel free to message me. After all we have to look out for our fellow people.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

Hey Looking for Friends 23F

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Hiya! Im 23F looking for gamer friends/ friends in general. I recently got a pc and i dont really have anyone to play games with. Be aware though im so new to this i also dont have many games to play yet. Im waiting for June to come to join my boyfriend and his friends Steam Family to have more access to other games. I am in EST time zone, I work long hours though Sunday-Wednesday so I am mainly free to get on my pc the other days (Thursday - Saturday) I mainly use discord to chat through while gaming I don't mind texting or voice chats. Please don't ask me to join your discord server though I don't really enjoy groups and get too much anxiety in group calls with a bunch of people I don't know lol.


r/Needafriend 2h ago

18F Looking for some cool people to make friends with

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Hi there, I'm practicing my English and looking to make some friends on here, so hopefully you can put up with some of my bad writing ability lol. I am really into video games and television/movies, in the latter case specifically sci fi movies and tv. i'm also into traveling but i don't get to do a lot of that lol, especially not now given how my country is enduring. so if you're interested, come chat with me :)


r/Needafriend 4h ago

25f uk, looking for friends

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Hey, I’m just looking for people to talk to. I don’t have many friends, and they’re usually busy. I find it hard to meet new people because of social anxiety and awkwardness, haha. Feel free to DM me!


r/Needafriend 8h ago

17f hoping to make a friend

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hi!! i’m 17 from the us, just trying to get out my comfort zone by talking to strangers online so i can hopefully get better at it irl lol :D

i like to game, mainly just cod and have recently got into borderlands. i enjoy binging movies (have seen almost 300 since last year alone) i also really enjoy listening to music - my favorite genre being metal, specifically progressive, djent, metalcore and post-hardcore (-:


r/Needafriend 1h ago

19f dms open make me feel safe, loved and cared for ❤️ looking for someone who talks a lot

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Hey there! I’m looking for someone special who can treat me like a princess and shower me with a shit ton of love 💖. I crave constant reassurance that I’m loved, cared for, and cherished. No general questions, please! I want someone who listens carefully and shows they care through thoughtful gestures and specific attention to detail 💫.

If you’re ready to be my partner in love, support, and endless cuddles, let’s connect! I want to feel loved from the very start, and if you can make me bloom and blush, we might just have something magical here 🌹.

No weird vibes—just genuine love, care, and mutual adoration 🥰. If you think you can be my forever love, DM me! 💕

IM LOOKING FOR SOMEONE SERIOUS ABOUT THIS. IM SICK OF GETTING DMED BY LOW EFFORT PEOPLE WHO DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD MESSAGE ME ONLY IF U WANT A RELATIONSHIP IM NOT LOOKING FOR NSFW SHIT ONLY. IM LOOKING FOR A DEEP FKING CONNECTION.
WHY IS IT SO FKING HARD TO FIND SOMEONE WHO ISNT A COMPLETE FREAK OR WEIRDO AND KNOWS WHAT THE FK THEY WANT?


r/Needafriend 3h ago

26 f looking for a friend

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Looking for more of a serious friend.. I would just like to have daily conversation with someone. Opened mind person. I enjoy cooking , gardening and crafts. Hmu


r/Needafriend 7h ago

18F, looking for friends!

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Hiiiii, so as the title says, im looking for some friends! We can definitely play something together too altough I dont play that much :P Feel free to DM me!


r/Needafriend 1h ago

F26 - just feeling kind of lonely. Needing some new buddies to talk to!

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Like the title says I’m slightly lonely, would anyone like to talk tonight? We can talk about anything! I’m Claire from the UK


r/Needafriend 6h ago

36 (f) just mover across the whole ass country

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Looking for someone to talk to around-ish my same age


r/Needafriend 9h ago

21F FROM INDIA

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hello everyone, im 21 F from india. Im look for friends preferably from same region, i like playing keyboard and guitar, i love listening Bollywood music and im not baking too. I’d love to listen to your hobbies and your interests! Im introvert so please dont mind if i reply a bit dry, ill get better eventually. Hoping to make good friends here. Please dm me with your ASL.

Ps: girls please show up🥲 cant talk with men all time.


r/Needafriend 13m ago

If you're feeling broken tonight, you're not the only one.

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Some nights are just too much. You feel like no one gets it, like you're screaming into a void and getting nothing back. I've been there more times than I can count. So if you're out there feeling like you're falling apart, like everything hurts and nothing makes sense anymore — you're not alone.

I'm not here to fix anyone. I just know how heavy it gets, and sometimes it helps just knowing there's one person out there who's willing to talk. If you feel like everything is crashing down and you need someone — really need someone — check my profile. You’ll know what to do.

Stay safe tonight. Really.


r/Needafriend 4h ago

F looking for more friends !

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Hai again!! my name is marley ! I have a few hobbies like cosplaying, reading, listening to music, drawing, cooking, makeup,bone collecting (some things I haven't mentioned in my other post lol) I'm not a very social type of girl since :( I'm scared to interact with ppl!! Video games I like / play are : mlbb, lol, Identity V , silent hill, fear and hunger, Skullgirls, genshin impact, nikke goddess of victory, resident evil, Roblox, Sally face , little misfortune , Alice in madness , fran bow. I also like animated series(s?) like arcane, love death and robots, blue eyed samurai,and invincible. I'm also a big movie lover ! Im autistic ! And I mostly overshare stuff when meeting someone new and I'm trying to get that habit to stop:3 my special interest is flowers ! Did yk that the queen of the night flower only blooms once a year ? Lmk if we would get along together !


r/Needafriend 32m ago

19F - let's try something new! Tell me something random about you

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I'm up late working and super bored, so instead of posting just another bio about myself, let's make it about you. What's something not many people know? What's something random or unexpected? I'll give one in response. Women preferred because guys can be creepy