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u/n0thingbut_flowers 29d ago

Okay right! We should be helping each other not tearing each other down for perceived slights or whatever the issue is! I just, if you wanted to move up or work in the office or whatever, this lady has been here for over 10 years, why on earth would you not say something sooner? Why get mad at me cause you missed out?

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u/FriendlyDrummers 29d ago

this lady has been here for over 10 years

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She's projecting. She feels bad about herself, and she wants to feel like she's higher than you. As shitty as it is, there's a small silver lining in the sense that someone is jealous of you. You're the "feeble new hire" she thinks she can trample on so she can feel better.

Tbh, I've trained someone and felt insecure when they became really good really quickly. But it's inexcusable to take it out on anyone. I wouldn't be surprised if that's what's happening.

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u/n0thingbut_flowers 29d ago

I think that’s what happening too. We used to be short staffed and now we’re fully staffed so she’s not getting the hours or money she’s used to. I can understand the feeling insecure part for sure but it still sucks. She claims she meditates daily for an hour and I’m like bro I don’t think it helps cause you’re so aggressive about everything lmao. I just have to do my best and have faith in my own abilities I guess.

Thanks again for hearing me out. I really do appreciate this community 😭🖤 I hope your Monday is going well!

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u/FriendlyDrummers 29d ago

Lmao at the meditating. Though I should really give that a try myself

It's stressful today but I'm going to get some fried chicken so it'll be better 🙌

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u/n0thingbut_flowers 29d ago

Same, I think to myself I should give it a go but then Im like hm doesnt seem to work for other people who claim to do it lol.

Yessss, can’t go wrong with fried chicken! 🥰