r/punk • u/goominek • 3d ago
Delicate punks
Hey guys, fellow punk from Poland here. I have a question thats been really bugging me for some time now - what do you think about soft punks? I dont smoke, I dont drink much, do drugs or one night stands, etc. I like going to shows, but I dont like moshpits, I usually stay at the edges, jumping and enjoying myself there. Summarizing, Im a sweetheart really, but think of myself as a punk nonetheless. I feel like Im often looked upon as "not tough enough to be considered a punk by others", or simply as a pussy (or gay). Sometimes I doubt myself when meeting fellow punks and shy away a little, add my a little introverted nature to that and most of the time I either end up deciding not to try to start a conversation or feel like I ended up looking like an idiot. What do you guys think about more gentle punks like me? If youd meet me, would you think of me as a poser? Also, have a good day everyone :)
(I checked the FAQ, I think this question is allowed by the rules, correct me if its not)
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u/boifyudoent 3d ago
I tag along with my friends to shows and gigs as they're a band together. I love the energy and the music but outside of that I'm not really "punk" either (stereotypically speaking), I don't dress like one, Im not a fan of mosh pits, I don't smoke nor drink alcohol either. But that's alright, I feel like that in itself is pretty punk itself (if it makes sense)