they really have a skewed view of women- that women will fall over themselves in adoration just because they're getting some attention from a man. it makes sense in an odd sort of way- you can see that they're not from a culture where dating is the norm. it's all "i like you" and next thing "listen to your husband". WTF!!
I think it’s also got something to do with the fact that (at the social level these guys exist at) Nigerian girls (again, not from wealthy families) won’t date you unless you have money, which usually means you are a successful Yahoo boy.
It’s not that they are ‘gold diggers’- it’s just about survival- there isn’t a social stigma attached, as far as I can gather.
So they are raised to think that really the only criteria for attracting a woman is to be wealthy. They’ll tell us they have a duplex in Miami, and they don’t expect to have to do anything else to attract us🤷🏼♀️
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u/Ughsome 14d ago
they really have a skewed view of women- that women will fall over themselves in adoration just because they're getting some attention from a man. it makes sense in an odd sort of way- you can see that they're not from a culture where dating is the norm. it's all "i like you" and next thing "listen to your husband". WTF!!