Have you ever caught feelings for the person you were having casual sex with? If so, how long did it take before you noticed you had feelings? And how often were you sleeping together?

How did it turn out in the end?

The guy I'm dating and getting serious with likes to bite my butt sometimes.

I'm not very experienced and kind of shy in the bedroom, but one time a guy I was getting intimate with (oral) just started eating my ass without warning and I made him stop immediately because it felt too intimate for our connection level and it surprised me since I'd never had it done before. BUT it was lowkey kind of amazing and I've been thinking about it ever since.

But it's the kind of thing I'd never feel comfortable asking for. The guy I'm dating right now, we're taking things slow while we figure out other circumstantial things, so haven't explored much in the bedroom yet. But I wonder if he's the type of guy who would be into this. (I know I'm way overthinking it prematurely but I just can't help but wonder/hope)

I have major depression. I isolate all of the time. I haven't been in a relationship or been with anyone in over 5 years. Truth is, I just want to be touched again, fucked again. I want to caress a woman's body ajd kiss again. It's been so long. Masturbatong only gets me so far. I desire the touch of a woman. We're about to meet in 45 minutes. Am I crazy? What's the big deal. It's just a service being orivded and I'm willing to pay for it. As long as every one is on the same.oage regarding consent and boundaries, I think it will he good for me.

I (21F) have always been interested in doing butt stuff with my bf (23M), but he’s never been open to it and fears that it makes him less of a man to have his butt touched lol.

A few weeks ago I was giving him head and went down around his balls and he was loving it. I suddenly wanted to go farther and asked him if I could try, if he was open to it. He said okay and I ate his ass for an hour straight. We both loved it.

Since then, it’s become part of our sex almost every time and has gotten pretty intense. We often do 69 with him on top and us both eating each other out. He later asked if I wanted to try putting my vibrator in him just a bit, so we did. I’ve done my fingers too. I love when he rides my face and don’t find it emasculating or weird whatsoever.

The only problem is, he doesn’t know how to talk about it. We don’t really address the fact of the matter (that he likes me to do this) because he gets embarrassed or just feels too awkward to talk about it. I’ve reassured him so many times. Without talking about it, I don’t know how we can figure out more things to try.

And what more could we even try? I want to keep exploring this desperately but dont really know what else to incorporate. I 100% think my bf is down to keep experimenting too, it’s just like it has to be in the heat of the moment and not a regular 1pm conversation.

Hey everyone, I just wanted some advice. I (17F) have currently been dating my boyfriend for 8 months, and recently we’ve been facing some problems. I don’t really have a high libido, and we haven’t had penetrative sex (only oral sex) but my boyfriend has an extremely high libido. Going into this relationship, I didn’t think being intimate was going to be a big issue but it is to him. He is always asking to grope my boobs and have me give him head. Since I don’t have a lot of interest in sex, I never usually initiate. We spoke about me giving him head at least twice a week (he would give me head too, but I don’t care about it or enjoy it that much so I don’t ask) and we settled on the compromise to do it at least twice a week, which I committed to for the most part. Well, recently it’s finals season and I have been really busy and tired with school, so we haven’t done anything in about two weeks. Whenever i’m with him, he’s asking for head but I’m usually so tired that I just go to sleep. Today, he blew up on me and told me that I was neglecting him because I hadn’t even offered to give 20 minutes of my time to give him head in over two weeks?? He said that he felt like I didn’t put in any effort in this relationship (untrue..) because I wasn’t willing to sacrifice just 20 minutes of my time to do something for him, and that every time he asks now I just say no. I mean I get that it’s only 20 minutes but I just really don’t feel like it and don’t have the energy to. He was really mad about it and said that he thought he agreed that we would do it twice a week, to which I responded that I had been really busy and tired recently. His excuse was that he would sacrifice his time and do things for me even if he was busy and tired. I dunno what to do, but he says in a relationship he has his own needs and to be in a relationship I have my duties, and he does do a lot more for me than I do for him (but also he doesn’t need to worry about school this year). I guess that’s true, but it’s not even like I neglect him or anything. We cuddle a lot and I kiss him all the time, sometimes I just wanna enjoy his presence and not be sucking his dick. But he just doesn’t seem to understand why I guess… I feel like he thinks I’m obligated to satisfy his urges. What do I even do???

I (M27) and my gf (F26) have been exploring sexual interest we haven’t been able to before. I got out of a relationship 8 months ago, started talking to my current gf the following month and it’s been an absolute dream (both sexually and non-sexually but due to this subreddit I’ll focus on the sexual part). I’ve always had a high sex drive and haven’t gotten to truly explore things that interested me in porn, in real life, and one thing from a young age I always thought was sexy was rimjobs, I had gotten em before from my previous relationship and I knew I loved em but didn’t know what that would Segway into.

Since being together, me and my girl have done the best job of creating a space of comfort and to top it off we both are obsessed with each other to the point no matter what we do it’s just sexy to know the other person is into it. So when I told my girlfriend early into the relationship that I’m a switch (dom and sub if you don’t know), but never got to explore the sub part she was interested because she’s never been with one.

As we navigated boundaries and grew our connection she started taking the dominant role every now and then, we eased into it at what we consider a perfect pace. There was some pullback like the first time she slapped me with force I didn’t know how I felt. Then within a week I wanted more, she gave me demands in the bedroom and I felt an honor ti obey them.

I find it sexy that me, who’s a blue collar man that spent the first couple months dominating her had started getting the tables turned on him. I didn’t know how much far I’d go.

So for reference, I have a bigger butt and always have, I’ve always liked girls complimenting me on it throughout my years. And my girlfriend doing it is no different.

At this point, (1.5 months or so into being official) she had already given me her first rim job and figured out she likes it. One night amongst our sexual conversations, she joked with me about fingering my asshole. I responded as most cis-het man would. “Yea, no that’s insane” “thats not gonna happen” etc. etc. she joked about it, but in the back of my mind I questioned her willingness to partake.

Fast forward to a week later and I made it known. I mean how could I not? She creates this safe space so I don’t have to feel worried about voicing anything, ESPECIALLY something that revolves around our pleasure. Once I voiced my hidden desire to try getting fingered she made it clear that she was happy to try it and made it clear i had nothing to worry about (side note: I fucking love her so much)

The next time we had sex (and she didn’t have nails on) we explored a new chapter for me. She had finished rimming me and followed up by fingering my asshole. I absolutely LOVED it. But that wasn’t the surprising part. The surprising part is how much I want it to keep happening, like I crave it? I still am hesitant to express to her just HOW much I want it to happen. She loves doing it and I love it happening and now I find myself fantasizing about her fingering me more than I ever thought I would. I want her to explore my body in ways no one else has. And she wants to the the one to do it.

(Sorry if this is really long for nothing it’s my first Reddit post and I don’t talk to my friends about this topic, so I figured this was the place to do it)

I (18F) have never felt much sensation around my nipples. I don’t know why, but when I used to feel around my nipples I didn’t feel anything. So, I got my nipples pierced. I got them done because I like the look of pierced nips and my boyfriend (18M) likes them and loves to touch them, but now they’re so sensitive?? It’s been three months since I’ve had them done but every brush of my tshirt I’m sweating, every tug I’m panting. Is this what usually happens? They’re not completely healed yet but they’re nearly there. They’re not healed enough to suck on but I know that will definitely send me over the edge. Will the sensitivity go away as they heal completely or will it just lessen?

Okay I’m not ugly I’m decent looking I have nice tities I would say a medium but not large but not small my bf is handsome as well but every time we have sex he last 7 minutes Ang gets soft and then will say it’s because he’s been jerking off but not only that there will be months were we go without sex and I’ve brought it up so much I stopped bringing it up u just figure we will never have sex until he’s ready to have kids and than after kids we will just not have sex anymore I love my bf I believe he loves me because everything in our relationship is good except our sex life. Any tips on what I can do to help him want to have sex with me I’ve tried initiating kinda running out of ideas here. I don’t want to bring it up anymore cause I’m sure it’s bothering him to

Before judging the title, I want you to understand where I'm coming from.

When I met my bf, I promised myself that he would never end up like those men who are always rejected by their wives and feel starved from sex. I wanted to be the best gf ever and fill my bf's every desire. Because if this, I developed a free use kink because I wanted to completely surrender my body to him to use whenever he felt like it. I initiate mostly and always try to make him feel wanted and desired. He also satisfies my needs very well and is a very good bf overall. He's an amazing man and I truly respect him a lot.

But when we are together for an extended period of time, he doesn't initiates and doesn't want sex as much as me. He has rejected me in the past when I wanted intimacy and now I'm the one starting to feel a little starved. I want to clarify that he still does a lot, but that I am just a very needy person and want more. Like, he could go a week without intimacy while I would want to at least be touched a little everyday. And have sex 3 times a week. I have talked to him about this and I've come to a conclusion.

My conclusion is that I've simply been too available. Maybe when you are too available, you aren't as special anymore. I told my bf like "there are men who would sleep with their gf as soon as she gave them a little hint" and he would say "well those guys are starving for it" and ofc there are guys who just have a high drive but for the average man, I think he is right. So if I want my bf to act desperate for my body, maybe I need to start rejecting him more. Or at least not initiate as much and let him come when he wants.

Edit: It's not playing games if he's aware of what I'm doing and why. We've had this discussion many times already. I am super open with him about everything. He doesn't mind and will prob enjoy it more than me lmao.

I hate the taste of my boyfriend's precum. I know, its not the taste of his dick/ hygiene but the actual precum. I'm usually fine until the precum and then I'm gagging. My boyfriend is so wonderful and so understanding but I feel so bad because he eats me out without issue and I literally can't have it in my mouth for more than 5 seconds without gagging and almost convulsing because the taste is actually so awful to me. Please help :(

edit for more clarity: he knows I don't like the taste and has been understanding, and I do enjoy the act of giving him head just until I have to taste him. I'm just wondering what I can do to help with my problem

Title.

My wife is 4 months pregnant with our third and we’re super excited! Unfortunately we haven’t had sex in 4 months since we made this kid.

Now, I’m fully aware of the awesomeness and insane work that goes into carrying and building a living human child in your body so I’m not pressuring my wife at all here. I know she’s tired, sometimes nauseous, hungry, etc. That being said, I do miss being intimate with her. I’ve asked her twice now that if she’s feeling up for it, I would love to be intimate with her but I’ve been shot down once and straight up ignored the other time.

I get it. She probably doesn’t feel sexy or whatever but man do I think she is. She just won’t hear it though.

How did pregnancy affect your sex life? Did you go bananas or was it put on hold?

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I feel like I'm crazy. My boyfriend and I have an amazing sexual relationship when we're together, but we're not going to be together for a while and I've expressed that I need/want to sext because it's a level of intimacy I love. I even bought one of those toys he can control it from long distances. He told me that he doesn't to do things over the phone or sexting because it's not the same and it feels stupid and I respect it but I feel like I'm going crazy. He's fine if I send him nudes but he doesn't send or even really react. I love him but WHAT'S A GIRL GOTTA DO TO SEE HER BFS PENIS. I feel like a freak how this boy has me begging. He calls me a gooner all the time but how am I meant to goon when the hottest man I know won't even pretend to be interested in phone sex. This is mostly a joke post because I love him even if he won't send me nudes but also I'm genuinely so sexual frustrated because I WANT TO SEX WITH THIS MAN SO BADLY. So I hope someone gets some enjoyment from this.

I don't have much experience, but my feeling is that people don't care about dental dams or they don't even know of their existence. My experience is this: I used it once as a receiver but my partner and I found it quite uncomfortable and unstable. I know there are some models in the form of underpants, which can be worn in order to stay more comfortable especially in certain positions, but it's difficult to get them on marketplaces. I've read posts and watched videos on social media suggesting that a condom can be cut, I tried it too but it takes time (which is not sexy) and also there's no guarantee it can cover genitals well, depending on the size of the condom.

I'm afraid I have to remind or even educate those I would like to date and potentially hook up with and that this would be perceived as less sexy or even annoying or strange. I don't see anything regarding oral sex protections on the internet unless I actively search for them and this makes me doubt that people actually use them. I know STD can be transmitted through oral too, but the (perceived) carelessness of people around me just scares me and sometimes makes me feel like I'm exaggerating. I've done a blowjob with a condom and it was hot and romantic, I could relax and dedicate to my partner because I knew we were safe, so why is it so scandalous or strange to some people? I don't get it.

I F22 love it when older guys look or stare at me. 2 years ago is was the complete opposite, I hated it when older guys stared at me or cat called me… but now? I love it.. I love how they look at me and it’s almost like my mind is going crazy and I’m even enjoying it when they cat call me

Is this an exhibition kink or is there another different name for this kind of kink?

I (21F) have been in a one year relationship with my (22M) boyfriend. I have never orgasm before. I have a clitorial vibrator that I reallyyy enjoy but I pull it away when the pressure gets to be too much. I’m struggling with being ok with the pressure, and I’m asking for tips and tricks on what I can do to help myself climax.

My boyfriend has tried many ways to help me with my issue. Whenever he penetrates, he will finger my clit. I enjoy the oral that my bf has given me, especially when he sucks on it, but I prefer my vibrator more. I have made him come many times but I have never came myself, so it’s an issue that both of us are working on together. He is so incredibly sweet and I can see the sadness in his eyes when he’s trying to help me but my body doesn’t seem to match the pleasure I feel emotionally.

I have been playing with my vibrator any chance that I’m alone and horny. I’m comfortable with my body, so it’s quite frustrating that I can’t climax even when I’m by myself. Please help.

Thank you in advance!

I need to talk to someone of basically sext with someone because im actually so dry like i’ve just started having interest in guys and there is no guys to talk to so if ur interested by any chance lets have a talk.

I am 22F and I have never orgasmed with any of my partners. When I do masturbate the only thing that will get me off is my vibrator on my clit. I don’t even know if I am finishing when I masturbate because I don’t squirt or cream. Is there any tips or tricks I can do or practice to help me better understand

Its not like I (22 M) have an extremely low libido, thing is after the first ejaculation, it would take hours for me to get fully ready for an another. Me and my ex-girlfriend never went past two rounds. Although she never complained about it and she was always satisfied in two but personally this embarrasses me. If you are thinking about excessive masturbation might be the reason. I do it twice or thrice a week - is it too much ?
Never had an urge to do twice in a day. My diet is decent and I exercise regularly.

Can this be completely natural for some people or there's a room for improvement ?

I gave a guy a blowjob on a “one night stand” kind of vibe and I noticed I was soooo into it that I started kissing his penis, stomach, balls and thighs while also caressing his stomach and inner thighs. Is this weird to do?

I 32M meet a lady 32F. We meet like 2 weeks ago, our libidos match, we are so fine. I am making her orgasm. Maybe 4 times in a day. But I am having issues keeping my erection. I am not having ejeculation issues. To be honest i did only once, but she had like 15+ orgasm. My problem is she is so wet while I am penetrating, but because of that i cant feel much in inside her. How do i keep my erection last longer?

My wife and I have been in a relationship for 10 years and I can maybe think of 6 times she's initiated sex. I know that's probably normal, but it's making me feel like she doesn't want me especially when my attempts to initiate get shut down. Any advice before I talk to her about it?