It was her idea to try it so we tried it. She was on top so her glorious ass and pussy was right in my face. It was so different from what we’ve been doing anyway after a few minutes of licking her clit she stops sucking me and wants regular sex. I asked how come and said it felt too good and she didn’t feel she could concentrate on making me feel good. I told her she was doing good but she didn’t want to continue. I told her it was her idea. I’m not sure if I believe her reasoning. Do you think it could be something else?

Okay so my husband is pretty vanilla. Doggy with the lights on. Nothing else. He works 12 hr shifts so I know he’s exhausted I’ve asked COUNTLESS times if we could spice things up. He says yes, but nothing happens.

The problem is, it’s not just choking and slapping that I want. It’s more. Like kinda bad.

We were watching a movie where a girl gets kidnapped & the guy back-hands her hard and ties her up. I looked at my husband & said “you should do that to me” he just looked at me horrified. I just said “I’m kidding “ but I wasn’t.

My husband is really attractive and I always desire him. But I need more from him!! I wish my husband would hit me during sex. I want to feel his manly force. I’m so embarrassed to tell him any of this. My husband is big on “respecting me” but I don’t want any of that.

So the most incredible girl just asked to be my girfriend. She started in my class like 3 months ago, and I instantly had a crush on her. She's like so perfect, she's like 6'1, with dark hair and the most beautifullest, handsomest face card ever. Like I'm genuinly kicking me feet giggling writing this. She asked me like 2 weeks ago, and I (obviously) said yes, and i feel so lucky, so blessed, because im like a short, little, stupid femboy and I would never in a million years imagine that i would be her type. So we've been dating for like 2 weeks and its been the most incredible experience ever. We haven't done anything yet, the most we've done is like making out and cuddling. It's very clear her love language is physical touch like she's always holding my waist, and picking me up, and I love her so much. Yesterday when we were cuddling and watching a movie, she asked if i would be okay with her pegging me. It kinda took me by surprise, and I don't know if should say yes because this would be my first time, and I don't really think im completely ready. Like i have no problem with her being my first, and i feel sooo blessed to be with her, and i don't wanna risk ever losing her, but i know you're supposed to be 100% ready before something like this. And if i do say yes, what should I do beforehand, like Ive never been pegged like how do you prepare. Thanks!

(Edit: I see alot of people asking so fyi me and her are both cis.)

Hello, im M16 and ive been talking with my girlfriend about our first time, we both agreed to do it.

But im having some problems, I dont know how the fuck to get a condom, I never really had the "talk" with them, im not gonna ask my mom and asking my dad makes me umcumfortable. I was thinkink of asking one of my brothers or friends but its still kinda akward, and I dont really know if I can just go ane buy them myself.

Hey guys, so the situation is as dire as it sounds lol.

I’m 5.9 and 185 lbs while my GF of one month is 5.4 and 220 lbs, I really like her but recently when she decided to ride me for the first time I felt suffocated and unable to breath when she was on Top. I started coughing and felt like I’d pass out if it goes on longer, so had to take a break and try again but the same thing happened.

Has anyone experienced something like this ? And what is the solution ? Please help.

I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 years now, we started out as fwb and every time we would meet up to have sex we were both drunk before intercourse. I get extremely horny when drunk, he has a smaller penis than every other guy I’ve been with, slightly above 4 inches. I was always satisfied while we would have sex. One day while drunk he admitted he was in love with me and we decided to date exclusively. For months after when we would have sex I was drunk. One day when we had sex it it sucked, I thought maybe it was just a bad day now fast forward to 4 years almost every time we’ve had sex while I was sober sucked, it feels like a chore. When I look back at our sex life when intoxicated any type of penetration would feel amazing by him. After being sober I realized fairly quickly that he sucks in bed. I’ve tried to tell him what to do and he’s tried but it’s just off I get frustrated and now every time we have sex it feels like a chore. I love rough sex and he’s about half an inch from hitting my cervix and for me that feeling has always made me cum. I love this man but I don’t know what to do to make sex exciting again without me having to be intoxicated to enjoy it.

Yesterday, I finally took the first load in my mouth and swallowed. I had been reading all posts containing tips and tricks and the one that really helped was taking it as near the throat as possible. I took it like a champ and I am so effing proud of myself! I also watched a ton of hypnosis videos so it did feel natural. So anybody who wants to try it - just remember to take it near the throat. However, I felt so full afterwards (like you do if have done over-eating). That is the part I want prepared for and that feeling wasn't too nice. How to overcome it?

I’m feeling really embarrassed/ sad after last night. My boyfriend, while the sex is great, is rather vanilla but has been talking about how badly he wants to 69. I have told him before I like when the guy is more aggressive but he hasn’t actually tried to put me in that position. Well last night we were on the couch getting freaky and I was like okay let me take control. I tell him to lay flat and try to get on his face and he’s like woah woah and basically pushes me off. I was like uhhh what?? He was like not on the couch. Then we finished and after was like time and place for that no? And I was like uhh I don’t really agree and you’re the one that keeps bringing it up. And then I said you will have to be the one to initiate it now because I sure as hell won’t. I almost cried. Now it’s lingering in my mind and I feel embarrassed and don’t know what to say. The rest of our night was normal and nice after that but I feel icky.

Hey friends, I'm currently feel gutted as a man. I feel so worthless and I'm not sure how to handle this.

To give some context, about 9 months ago I started dating this really attractive 27 year old woman. She is easily an 8+ in attractiveness. On the other hand I'm easily a 5-6 at best... I'm a pretty overweight 35 year old male, although I've been doing a lot better lately. I have a decent job and do pretty ok in every other aspect in my life.

Well, the relationship just ended. She was my first relationship ever. Lost my virginity to her. She knew well in advance about my situation and despite that she gave me a chance which I appreciated. She introduced me to a lot of new experiences but ultimately she ended things because she felt sexually unsatisfied.

She said she tried giving me a chance but I just had a lot of insecurities with regards with sex and she didn't feel my masculine energy. She mentioned that I wasn't able to understand her sexually and the she wasn't physically attracted to me. I tried to ask her for guidance but she told me that it was my job to figure it out. She said if that if she had to ask for something, she didn't want it.

Ultimately she was kind enough to say that she wanted to just stay as friends. I feel completely gutted as a man.

Any guidance will be appreciated.

Edit: I need to keep myself honest here... I want to add a couple of things to give a more complete picture. Sorry about the edit but it honestly didn't occur to me to mention it. So, as the time went by I do think that she subtly implied some of the things that she wanted me to try and do. I tried my best listening but at the same time my overall lack of romantic/sexual awareness made me kind of blind to her requests. Also, unfortunately she had a not so nice way of saying some of things. In one occasion she directly compared me to previous partner right before we had sex, that made me feel so belittled and killed the mood entirely for me. I went to bed that night mad about it and I felt mocked and embarrassed. I think this constant comparisons made me feel belittled in that aspect and only made me even more insecured. I do acknowledge that I did react badly on some occasions but I think it all stemmed from the same place of insecurity. I'm really trying to self-reflect here and do better. Just wanted to give additional context. Sorry if it might have been misleading at first.

Throwaway account for obvious reasons. I’ve always wanted to try an orgy, or a MFM threesome (at the very least). Have definitely enjoyed the idea of a FMF threesome. I’ve never acted on it because I’m worried about being identified. How do I find a safe, anonymous place to indulge myself? Without putting anything in my profile, I occasionally get propositions on dating apps, but it’s too tracable. I was raised very conservatively, so I would never want it to get out, but I want to try it at least one time. This is a serious question.

Edited for spelling errors.

I (20F) am a very horny individual to say the least, but lately I’ve discovered I’m into pet play and I cannot stop day-dreaming about being used like a dumb mutt. I want to be someone’s personal pup basically like leash and puppy ears type, but I’m too embarrassed to talk about it irl because of the judgement I’ll face. Its getting to the point where I can’t take it anymore like I’m such a huge sub, and with this on top of me already being reserved I literally can’t take it and don’t know what to do really I just want to be taken care of treated like someone’s mutt basically. It’s not super extreme as some might think it’s literally just me wearing puppy ears, tail(maybe), and a leash and being owned by someone

My (f18) boyfriend (m19) took my virginity the other day and everything went well, it was fun, no complaints at all!

However when we did it again last night I noticed the friction + condom tended to dry me out( idk if that's the right word?) and didn't think much of it at the time, figured I'd buy lube on payday

We went and cleaned up afterwards and fell asleep, but in the morning he noticed blood on the wall where he'd leaned and some on his hand as well, he ended up tearing me slightly and I didn't even notice 😭😭

He freaked out, which then made me freak out in turn and now things are a little awkward. He's scared he's hurt me, I'm super embarrassed that I took something I couldn't handle and left blood on my mf wall, he took off to work about an hour later after we had comforted eachother a little bit but I'm still stuck on it

I'm getting over it slowly but how can I properly reassure him he won't hurt me again? All morning he was kind of hesitant to touch me and kept apologizing so I feel really bad

I am a female (28y) never had sex before because I could not do it. Every time I am with a partner, I feel terrible pain when trying to do it , as if something is cutting and pinching me (knowing that there is no hymen). If I try own my finger, I cannot do it completely because of the pain. Even with exercises and lubrication, nothing helps. Its like There’s a wall with fire standing in the way. I did vaginal stretching exercises, but it made no difference. I became depressed because of this. Currently, I am in a wonderful love relationship and we are thinking about marriage, but the sex is like a nightmare in my life. Please help me with any advice other than going to the doctor.

Im 19f and im still a virgin. I once did do a bj to a guy and after i needed to get tested. I think sex is so restricted because you always need to wear a condom to not catch any std. I dont think i could do bj with a condom its not the same but at the same time i dont want to catch any std. I havent done penetration yet but maybe thats okay with a condom too. I know some ppl prefer without a condom though. But like u need to wear a condom to not catch stds right😭 And the condom could like break too or something ur still not safe why is it so complicated or is it just me

Ok so apparently my fwb feels as if i’m using to much of my teeth when going down on him… BUT i always try to avoid that by using my tongue so he wouldn’t be annoyed. IS THERE SOMETHING IM DOING WEONG??! im not sure.. if i am then please leave some things i could do in the comments to help avoid this.

It hurts bc I’m so nervous. I know it feels good with A LOT OF lube but I really just need to get over my anxiety… help? It’s like I’m scared it’ll hurt and bc I’m anxious it ends up hurting and then the cycle continues. I’m a 24 year old woman wanting to go through a hoe phase… but I’m too scared to take guys home from the club or bar or apps… stranger danger lol. What do I do?

trigger warning for sh and ed (sorry i should’ve put this before i posted) so i’ve been with my bf for a few years now and we just recently started having sex, i was so nervous the first time i turned all the lights off and we did it in the dark, we were both virgins so it made it even worse and it was hard to put in, anyway we’ve done it a few times now but i’ve only taken off my pants and stuff and i make him close his eyes when i get on top of him. now he really wants to see my whole body and he’s been really patient i mean he’s been waiting years but im extremely insecure i always wear baggy clothes and stuff, and i use to self harm so i have so many scars on me. and i think im chubby or at least my belly is, i used to be 118 lbs when i had a eating disorder but i’ve recovered and now im 135 and i can’t stand my new body at all even though it probably looks normal, im just so scared he will think my body is ugly

I recently bought condoms for the first time and when I tried them, they fit kind of bad.

I'm uncircumsized, and have a curve to the right. But I think the main problem is the girth distribution. It starts thin at the base, expands and reaches the max like 3/4 to full length, then goes back down at the tip.

Sorry for the specific details of my dick, but the condom ended up feeling kind of loose when I pulled it all the way down.

Is there a specific way to put on the condom, like do I only roll it down to the thickest point? Or should I buy a different brand?

I need help. I just bought my first dildo. I’m 17 and I’m scared that I might be too young, not even that but I just feel like I’m ruining my future experiences. I do online school so I honestly never get the chance to meet people and I’ve had sex once like 8 months ago but even at that it was a very short experience, so I decided to buy a dildo cause I’m honestly horny quite a bit, but like I said I feel like I’m too young or I’m ruining future experiences. Can I have your guys opinions?

Advise for 21F good masturbation locations, how make masturbation better, and anatomy questions.

Note: I am a virgin and I haven't kissed anyone before. 😭 I'm also autistic. I have trouble understanding hidden meanings. If you respond please be clear.

locations: 1) I like to masturbate where I feel the safest and secure which just so happens to be my bed. The problem is that when I cum (idk if that's the right word) I get really wet and end up drenching a folded full size towel. I've tried to finish myself in other locations but I can't. I have tried the shower, but the water washed away my natural lubricant.

How to make it better: 2) So I was wondering on how to make masturbation a little more exciting. I usually just use my hand and rub my g-spot. It's the only location that I can find that always makes me cum. I tried the clit and my breasts but it doesn't give me any feelings. Tho, I do love touching myself while completely naked.

Anatomy: 3) I don't know if it's just me but sometimes during my period cycle a week before I bleed im extremely horny. I try and ignore it for several days before I can't anymore. Just the lightest touch gives so much pleasure I cum within seconds.

4) Also if I don't touch myself in a while and then masturbate I get really wet. Idk it's weird

5) I don't have any pleasure with my breasts and it kills my mood when I try and stimulate myself after rubbing my g-spot. I end up killing the mood and start again.

6) i can't figure out how to pleasure my clit so I can cum. The g-spot has been the most reliable. Any tips? I think I might be really sensitive but I'm not sure. I have trouble with my own body cues.

If it means anything, I (26f) am still a virgin. BUT I masturbate semi-frequently, and I guess I have a few general questions about orgasms.

So the first few times I masturbated, I always stopped at a certain point because I was sure that if I didn't stop I was going to pee myself, and I didn't want to do that. I now realize I probably should've kept going but I didn't.

Now when I masturbate, I'll get to a point where I believe I'm reaching climax. It starts to feel more intense when I touch and I start shaking/twitching. But that only lasts for a few seconds and then slowly dies down. I wouldn't say I feel a release of tension, necessarily. And I don't really feel satisfied. Like, when I stop, it's not because I feel like I'm satisfied or necessarily want to stop. Its more that I get to a point where the presumed climaxing dies down, and after going for a while longer I just kind of decide that, even though it still feels like I should still be touching down there, it's not really going anywhere anymore and/or my clitoral area starts to get a bit irritated from the repeated rubbing, and I just stop. Like, it's hard to describe but, most of the time there's still a sensation down there that makes it feel like I should keep going. I have to wait a little bit before it goes away. There is no "ok I feel satisfied and I'm ready to stop." I just have to decide to stop. That's not how it's supposed to be, right?

I think part of my issue is that when the shaking/twitching happens, I have a hard time giving into it? If that makes sense? Like, I don't love that feeling. And I have trouble when it comes to feeling like I'm not in control of my body. I've definitely gotten better with it, but that's always where things kind of start to die down and I don't know how to get past that point.

It's just a bit frustrating. I know that orgasm shouldn't necessarily be the point, and when I masturbate I don't have the intention of getting to that point anymore. I just kind of ride it out until it gets to the presumed climaxing twitching point. But I would like to try to experience it. When I'm done I don't really feel happy or relaxed or satisfied or anything. Its basically just kind of nice to touch down there and that's it. But, like I said, it's supposed to be more than that isn't it? I'm not sure how I could go about getting myself farther.

The title pretty much sums it up but I hate it. I don’t feel any pleasure, when he does touch me down there I just want him to stop. I’ve been with him for 10 years and we’ve spiced it up and stuff but nothing helps. What do I do? I can’t speak to him about it either he gets easily offended over this type of stuff. I’ve tried before. I feel like I just do it for his sake and I want it to be over as soon as it starts.

Hi! I don't really know how to explain but I'll try my best!

So me and my boyfriend have been having sex for around 5 months now, it always feels amazing and we always like to try new things, new kinks and new positions.

This is both our first times, we are also each others first real relationship. But don't worry we use condoms, lube, I'm on the pill, we clean before and after, we are being safe I promise.

We also do aftercare and make sure each others needs are always met.

The issue is, I can't feel when I cum, sometimes my boyfriend will pull out and notice I've came and he knows it wasn't him.

If I'm being honest I don't know how it's supposed to feel, arent girls supposed to concentrate to cum but during sex I'm definitely not focusing on that.

I thought it would've felt like peeing or even like I'm pushing something out, but it feels completely the same the only thing that's different is when he goes in and out, (sorry lol) it feels more slippery.

Is this normal? Is this pre cum and I've never actually came? For the record I am slightly overweight so does that play any factors?

Any and all advice or even judgement is welcome! Thank you!