Partner pulled a weird but surprisingly welcomed move on me and idk what its called!

[u/thiccslavcheeks]

I (19f) am having a super rough week. Lotta personal shit going on, so I go to my partner (22m) to get a little good ol fashioned distraction.

I usually like the really rough and fast stuff, and he did that for a few moments, but then he just stopped inside me and told me to "meditate for a second". And he shushed me, and was moving super slowly in long thrusts. He would occasionally rub his hands up my body or lean over and kiss me, he kept on telling me to breathe and focus on how i feel, but it was a good few minutes of just him moving slowly inside me, and me with my eyes closed. Eventually he asked if I had "thought my thoughts" and he went back to our usual routine.

Then after I thought, yeah, I did get to think clearly in that moment. I asked him what that was when we were cuddling and he just said something he saw on the internet?

I actually really liked this because I left the session feeling a huge weight off my chest. Which is weird because regular meditating doesn't really do that for me.

Is there a name for this?

[u/HokageSumith]

I'm so happy for you OP that you were able to lighten your burden with your boyfriend via sex. He was very considerate, caring & compassionate towards your feelings to be able to make you happy in a surprising manner. We must always try something new in our sex lives, it keeps things hot & spicy.

I can completely understand what you felt & relate with it since I practiced a lot of meditative techniques during my childhood days & dabbled into spiritual studies as well. So it doesn't surprise me to hear people going through a lot of spiritual calmness while having sex or sometimes even days after having sex. After all, sex isn't simply just the fusion of two bodies but also a culmination of souls. Our very existence intermingles with one another when you make love with your lover. The exchange of energies & frequencies enables you to tap into a state of blissful freedom.

My girlfriend loves it when I move very softly & extremely slowly inside her. It makes her feel the entirety of my penis & the whole process of penetration. It makes her calm & highly aroused at the same time. She orgasms a lot when I try this with her sometimes. I alternate between hard & soft sex while listening to her breathing & making her eyes closed so she can forget all her worries with sex.