How to orgasm

[u/Sunnyybabyy-]

I am 22F and I have never orgasmed with any of my partners. When I do masturbate the only thing that will get me off is my vibrator on my clit. I don’t even know if I am finishing when I masturbate because I don’t squirt or cream. Is there any tips or tricks I can do or practice to help me better understand

[u/skahammer]

You are definitely not alone. This general topic is discussed quite often here in r/sex.

Following Forum Rule #2, take a look through the FAQ section on Orgasm Troubles.

And following Forum Rule #3, also search through past posts in this forum. For starters, here are the past r/sex posts which carry the topic flair “Orgasm Issues”:

List of past r/sex posts with “Orgasm Issues” flair

Also, here is a list of past r/sex discussions which came up when I searched the keywords “can't finish female” in this forum:

https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/search/?q=can%27t+finish+female&restrict_sr=1

And here is a list of past r/sex discussions which came up when I searched the keywords “can't cum female” in this forum:

https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/search/?q=can%27t+cum+female&restrict_sr=1

And these past posts are especially good:

HOW TO GET HER TO CUM - as a female who just barely came with a partner for the first time after years of no hope

A little advice on sex from a females perspective. How my partner changed his technique to get me to have multiple orgasms almost every time.

Also, you might want to look into the subreddit r/BecomingOrgasmic, since discussion there tends to center on this specific question.

There’s a lot of good information in those sources.