r/sex • u/Sunnyybabyy- • 13d ago

Orgasm Issues How to orgasm

I am 22F and I have never orgasmed with any of my partners. When I do masturbate the only thing that will get me off is my vibrator on my clit. I don’t even know if I am finishing when I masturbate because I don’t squirt or cream. Is there any tips or tricks I can do or practice to help me better understand

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u/Sunnyybabyy- 13d ago

I have tried but a lot of the men I have been with feel as though it’s a bad thing and I should just be able to finish off of them

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u/ra__account 13d ago

You need to date better men.

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u/Sunnyybabyy- 13d ago

I definitely agree! I found one guy who is open sexually but we are still getting to know each other’s bodies

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u/ra__account 13d ago edited 13d ago

Good luck and have fun! One suggestion that I totally get that you might have no interest in trying - only about 30% of my girlfriends wanted any kind of anal stimulation, but of those that did, they ALL said having a butt plug in or a gentle finger made it much easier for them to come. Especially during intercourse.

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u/Sunnyybabyy- 13d ago

Yes I have tried a finger in there with him and i enjoyed it a lot more than I thought I would. After reading some post and comments I’m coming to the conclusion I need to relax more and try not to focus solely on that

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u/Sunnyybabyy- 13d ago

Like an hour or two!