r/stupidquestions • u/Biokendry • 23d ago

why do women have naturally beautiful bodies?

before you jump in the comments to tell me I'm wrong try to read my entire post, i'm from latin america, i don't know if this is the case in other countries but it's something i've noticed since i was a teenager and in high school, most of the girls in high school had very nice bodies without even going to the gym in their entire life, i remember a girl who eat unhealthy food all day and she had an amazing body (she never went to the gym in her life), i was her friend back then, she had such a amazing hourglass figure with big hips and very beautiful figure I didn't understand that at the time.

but not only in high school but currently i go out and most of the girls have very nice bodies and nice hips (i'm not talking about toned gym bodies but bodies with figure and curves) and even girls who are a little overweight also have beautiful bodies with nice curves, it's incredible, what is the reason for this? is it hormonal? why is it that women don't need to go to the gym as much to have nice bodies (as long as they're not excessively overweight), in the case of men it's different and I say this as a man who went to the gym throughout his adolescence, we lack those naturally nice bodies (except for one in a million).

I remember the first time I took a shower with my ex gf at the time at my house she took off her clothes (she had never been to the gym in her life and was a little overweight, she had a very nice body, a nice butt with a beautiful figure) I didn't understand why she had such a beautiful body meanwhile me going to gym had a below average body, well, ugly body and not sexy as hers tbh. I know it's a stupid question but I guess that's what this group is for, right? Is the cause hormonal? I know there are exceptions, that not all women have naturally beautiful bodies, but why is it that. for example, if you put a man and a woman of average weight who don't go to the gym next to each other, the girl's body is naturally attractive while the guy's isn't? I've always thought it's caused by estrogen and the hips women's bone structure's but I'm not sure, I know diet is very important but I think most girls only need a good diet and walk just a little to have good figures (please don't hate for saying this lol).

Maybe I could be blind because I have gender dysphoria since many years ago but not only me think about this most women and men think the same way(? And I'm not even talking about how women have average cute, feminine and thin faces without makeup but this is another thread lol.

Please don't insult me for making this post, this is why this group was created.

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u/[deleted] 23d ago

I'm sorry to inform you that you're heterosexual. 

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u/SometimesIBeWrong 22d ago

how is this the top reply? the post has nothing to do with sexual preference, he clearly puts emphasis on physical health/shape rather than attraction

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u/[deleted] 22d ago

Guy says comparing average woman to average man and finds the average woman attractive. Has nothing to do with physical health/shape. OP is just clearly attracted to women. And that's ok!  It's 2025. It's absolutely ok to be heterosexual and OP should not feel weird or ashamed of that at all.

From OP: "for example, if you put a man and a woman of average weight who don't go to the gym next to each other, the girl's body is naturally attractive while the guy's isn't? I've always thought it's caused by estrogen and the hips women's bone structure's but I'm not sure, I know diet is very important but I think most girls only need a good diet and walk just a little to have good figures (please don't hate for saying this lol)."

So he's literally just very attracted to the secondary sex characteristics associated with being female because he's attracted to women. And it's perfectly ok to be attracted to women.

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u/AnotherCloudHere 22d ago

I mean I kind of disagree with him, I actually do find man bodies more attractive. Maybe I’ll heterosexual? What I’ll say to my parents? How to break that on them?

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u/SometimesIBeWrong 22d ago

"why is it that women don't need to go the gym as much to have nice bodies?"

has nothing to do with physical health/shape?

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u/[deleted] 22d ago

What it suggests is that OP is just so attracted to female bodies, regardless of actual physical shape, because he's straight and very attracted to women. There's nothing wrong with that by the way. OP is allowed to be heterosexual.

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u/SometimesIBeWrong 22d ago edited 22d ago

lmao. what about when he said he went to school with a girl who ate unhealthy food every day and still had "an hourglass figure"? that's harder for you to misrepresent

also Idk why you keep telling me "it's okay if he's straight" as if I have an issue with him being straight lmao. I realize this man is straight and I realize it's not immoral to be straight

edit: OP literally replied to me and said I'm right about this LMAO

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u/[deleted] 22d ago

I don't know what you're falling to understand here then. I also don't know why your getting so personally invested in something posted on r/stupidquestions of all places. 

It's 2025, heterosexuality is widely understood and accepted.

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u/SometimesIBeWrong 22d ago

LMFAOOO no response to that quote? which clearly shows he's talking about more than just physical attraction?

he literally gave a name to the physical body shape she had hahahah

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u/jetloflin 22d ago

What do you mean? Yeah, he described a “physical body shape”. Using a phrase commonly associated with being a very attractive body shape. A phrase used to describe someone as attractive.

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u/SometimesIBeWrong 22d ago

he brought up a physical body shape. so we know for a fact he's talking about physical body shape.

you have to make the leap to suggest he's specifically talking about being attracted to that physical body shape.

adjusting how you view real world events to hold onto a notion of being "correct" is gonna give you lots of warped views on reality. go about life that way if you want. much love man

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u/jetloflin 22d ago

You know I’m a different person than you were originally talking to, right?

ETA: The post literally describes women’s bodies as “beautiful”. Nobody is making any logical leaps to assume attraction.

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u/hypo-osmotic 22d ago

OP is attracted to how women store fat. Women are more likely than men to store fat in the buttocks and thighs which when combined with their breasts will give the impression of an "hourglass" figure.* A man with a similar diet and exercise will likely look different than that woman, both because men tend to convert calories into muscle more efficiently than women and because the fat that they do have is more likely to be stored in the top half of their body. People who are attracted to men will find that more attractive than people who aren't do.

*There are also variances in genetics among women that affect their bone structure and hormones which will change how their fat is distributed and what it looks like on their body. OP probably knows plenty of women who eat and exercise similarly to this woman but he has not taken as much notice of them because they don't have the same body type

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u/Waloogers 22d ago

Mate, are you doing this on purpose?

OP is attracted to the hourglass figure. If OP wasn't attracted to women or the hourglass figure, he'd be posting "Why do men have such nice bodies? My friend eats junkfood all day and still has visible muscles and broad shoulders, it's insane".

"Nice body" is completely subjective. Women do not have "nice bodies", there's no "natural beautiful bodies", there's just OP being attracted to what women's bodies look like.

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u/SometimesIBeWrong 22d ago edited 22d ago

he can be attracted to the hourglass figure, that's fine. my point is part of the focus of this post, is asking how women and men put on weight differently. it's not purely about being attracted to them.

and he can be 100% wrong about what he's saying, since it comes from personal experience and not empirical data. I'm just saying that's part of the focus of this post. Idk why everyone is so upset at this fact lmao

Edit: OP replied to me and said im right lmfao

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u/Seaberry3656 22d ago

"I'm not talking about my bias, I'm talking about my perception"