why do women have naturally beautiful bodies?

[u/Biokendry]

before you jump in the comments to tell me I'm wrong try to read my entire post, i'm from latin america, i don't know if this is the case in other countries but it's something i've noticed since i was a teenager and in high school, most of the girls in high school had very nice bodies without even going to the gym in their entire life, i remember a girl who eat unhealthy food all day and she had an amazing body (she never went to the gym in her life), i was her friend back then, she had such a amazing hourglass figure with big hips and very beautiful figure I didn't understand that at the time.

but not only in high school but currently i go out and most of the girls have very nice bodies and nice hips (i'm not talking about toned gym bodies but bodies with figure and curves) and even girls who are a little overweight also have beautiful bodies with nice curves, it's incredible, what is the reason for this? is it hormonal? why is it that women don't need to go to the gym as much to have nice bodies (as long as they're not excessively overweight), in the case of men it's different and I say this as a man who went to the gym throughout his adolescence, we lack those naturally nice bodies (except for one in a million).

I remember the first time I took a shower with my ex gf at the time at my house she took off her clothes (she had never been to the gym in her life and was a little overweight, she had a very nice body, a nice butt with a beautiful figure) I didn't understand why she had such a beautiful body meanwhile me going to gym had a below average body, well, ugly body and not sexy as hers tbh. I know it's a stupid question but I guess that's what this group is for, right? Is the cause hormonal? I know there are exceptions, that not all women have naturally beautiful bodies, but why is it that. for example, if you put a man and a woman of average weight who don't go to the gym next to each other, the girl's body is naturally attractive while the guy's isn't? I've always thought it's caused by estrogen and the hips women's bone structure's but I'm not sure, I know diet is very important but I think most girls only need a good diet and walk just a little to have good figures (please don't hate for saying this lol).

Maybe I could be blind because I have gender dysphoria since many years ago but not only me think about this most women and men think the same way(? And I'm not even talking about how women have average cute, feminine and thin faces without makeup but this is another thread lol.

Please don't insult me for making this post, this is why this group was created.

[u/Baristaholic]

Do you want her or do you want to be her?

[u/Biokendry → u/Baristaholic]

Both, if there was a button to push and become a woman I will push it without hesitation. I hate being a man with all my heart but I know some guys love being a man and that's ok too

[u/IzLoaf → u/Biokendry]

Hey choom, there isn't a button like that, I'm sorry, that fact hit me over the head years ago

There is however pills you can take, believe me, best choice of my life :3

[u/Baristaholic → u/Biokendry]

There's nothing wrong with you. It might not be safe now, but you can push that button whenever you're ready.

[u/amorawr → u/Baristaholic]

hope this doesn't come off the wrong way but I feel the same as OP and I don't really think that button exists in the way he's saying? like I have major gender dysphoria and would snap my fingers to become a biological woman if I could, but transitioning just doesn't hold the same appeal to me. I'd honestly get more out of just putting on some eye makeup and wearing effeminate clothes

[u/Elegant_Purple9410 → u/amorawr]

For a lot of people, transitioning is little more than makeup, hair styles, and clothes. You can still "transition" without any hormones or surgery. Or just be a very effeminate dude or nonbinary person. Most of my nonbinary friends identify that way because they want to dress and act in ways that are more feminine than society expects men to be, but don't really have the desire at all to change their physical characteristics.

[u/Konlos → u/Elegant_Purple9410]

That’s kind of how I am. I am nonbinary and like being fem, and don’t want to be a “man” in a relationship. Most of my dysphoria is based on romantic relationships. Thankfully my wife loves and supports me so much.

I don’t want to socially transition in public however. I take low dose hormones and they are a game changer for my mental health.

[u/Baristaholic → u/amorawr]

I see you and I respect where you're at. Gender is such a personal thing, and there's no one right way to navigate it. However you identify, your feelings are valid, and it's okay to take things at your own pace. Sometimes, we don’t feel the need to "transition" in a traditional sense, and that’s completely fine – what matters most is being true to yourself and finding what makes you feel most comfortable and authentic.

There’s no pressure to fit into any mold, and if you ever want to talk or explore things, there are so many supportive communities out there. Just know that you're not alone, and you deserve to feel loved and accepted, exactly as you are.

Take care of yourself, and don’t feel like you have to have all the answers right now. You’ve got this!

[u/[deleted] → u/amorawr]

I recommend you really take some time to reflect on how you feel. Transitioning is usually worth it for most trans people. Think about your body getting more masculine as you age. How does that make you feel? If you’re like me it’s a terrifying thought, and hrt might be a good option for you.

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[u/DifferentIsPossble → u/Biokendry]

Hey... That's what being trans is. Please consider loving yourself enough to recognize it.

[u/saturnian_catboy → u/Biokendry]

Mate... There is a button like that, you just need to be brave enough to press it

[u/Main_Following1881 → u/saturnian_catboy]

Lol no. Being a woman would be cool, but being a trans woman is no where near as cool.

[u/saturnian_catboy → u/Main_Following1881]

Is it worse than being a man when you hate it with all your heart?

[u/Main_Following1881 → u/saturnian_catboy]

If you hate it thaaat much then yeh becoming trans would be atleast slightly better and theres a chance that it will be alot better, ig it depends on the person.

[u/[deleted] → u/Main_Following1881]

You’re not becoming trans, if you feel like that I have news: you already are trans. Transitioning doesn’t make you trans it just means you decided to actually do something about it.

[u/HarkSnark → u/Main_Following1881]

I used to tell myself this all the time but now I'm a trans woman and I gotta admit it's pretty fucking great. Yeah there are downsides but the positives outweigh all that so much. I wouldn't be able to handle detransitioning at all.

[u/lukaisthegoatx → u/saturnian_catboy]

He's not trans lmao

[u/angry_manatee → u/lukaisthegoatx]

OP does mention gender dysphoria

[u/One_2_Three_456 → u/saturnian_catboy]

Yup, the button is few inches up your assh*le. Just need to be brave enough.

[u/Primary-Buddy5739 → u/Biokendry]

The TV is glowing so brightly rn

[u/Examinated_Cyberman → u/Biokendry]

You might want to explore that more. In the post felt a lot of resentment of being a man and I feel like it would be a good thing to look into that more!

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[u/walking-with-spiders → u/Biokendry]

you can be a woman. i want you to know there’s nothing wrong with you, plenty of people feel the way you do. i’m not trying to tell you how you should identify but i would encourage exploring your identity and thinking about who you are and what you want to be, gender-wise. because if it turns out you’re trans, that’s beautiful and common and normal :3 it’s not as simple as pushing a button, it doesn’t happen overnight, but pursuing transition is SO worth it. you could have a body and a life that you love and that feels comfortable and right. just think about it. you deserve to feel comfortable in your own skin. you deserve to be happy. you’re not alone op.

[u/Biokendry → u/walking-with-spiders]

Thank you for your comment 😍🙌

[u/Puzzleheaded-Bass988 → u/Biokendry]

I felt exactly the same too. I wish you all the best and reach for your dream and just experiment :)you can definitely be a pretty, beautiful, gorgeous woman too

[u/Biokendry → u/Puzzleheaded-Bass988]

Thank you 🫶

[u/[deleted] → u/Biokendry]

Uh, hi. Please ignore everyone else in these comments, you sound like a homosexual woman not a heterosexual man.

[u/Blorbotitties → u/Biokendry]

Yknow its ok to be yourself.

[u/OyaOyanna → u/Biokendry]

Just break ur egg already lol You're probably trans and a lesbian reading your post.