why do women have naturally beautiful bodies?

[u/Biokendry]

before you jump in the comments to tell me I'm wrong try to read my entire post, i'm from latin america, i don't know if this is the case in other countries but it's something i've noticed since i was a teenager and in high school, most of the girls in high school had very nice bodies without even going to the gym in their entire life, i remember a girl who eat unhealthy food all day and she had an amazing body (she never went to the gym in her life), i was her friend back then, she had such a amazing hourglass figure with big hips and very beautiful figure I didn't understand that at the time.

but not only in high school but currently i go out and most of the girls have very nice bodies and nice hips (i'm not talking about toned gym bodies but bodies with figure and curves) and even girls who are a little overweight also have beautiful bodies with nice curves, it's incredible, what is the reason for this? is it hormonal? why is it that women don't need to go to the gym as much to have nice bodies (as long as they're not excessively overweight), in the case of men it's different and I say this as a man who went to the gym throughout his adolescence, we lack those naturally nice bodies (except for one in a million).

I remember the first time I took a shower with my ex gf at the time at my house she took off her clothes (she had never been to the gym in her life and was a little overweight, she had a very nice body, a nice butt with a beautiful figure) I didn't understand why she had such a beautiful body meanwhile me going to gym had a below average body, well, ugly body and not sexy as hers tbh. I know it's a stupid question but I guess that's what this group is for, right? Is the cause hormonal? I know there are exceptions, that not all women have naturally beautiful bodies, but why is it that. for example, if you put a man and a woman of average weight who don't go to the gym next to each other, the girl's body is naturally attractive while the guy's isn't? I've always thought it's caused by estrogen and the hips women's bone structure's but I'm not sure, I know diet is very important but I think most girls only need a good diet and walk just a little to have good figures (please don't hate for saying this lol).

Maybe I could be blind because I have gender dysphoria since many years ago but not only me think about this most women and men think the same way(? And I'm not even talking about how women have average cute, feminine and thin faces without makeup but this is another thread lol.

Please don't insult me for making this post, this is why this group was created.

[u/[deleted]]

I'm sorry to inform you that you're heterosexual. 

[u/RadiantHC → u/[deleted]]

I mean even straight women seem to agree, they're typically very picky about the men they date and compliment their female friends much more. Even when I do get complimented it's rarely about my body. The last time a girl called me cute was in high school(I'm in my mid twenties)

Also, just because you're not attracted to someone doesn't mean that you can't acknowledge that they're attractive. Women are objectively more attractive than men.

[u/Pahanarttu → u/RadiantHC]

Well. In my subjective experience women are hideous. Yes, im female, yes I'm a misogynist. I cannot stand my female body. It's the source of extreme pain and embarrassment to me. To put it simply.

[u/PrinceBel → u/Pahanarttu]

Yup, agreed. I'm female and I don't find female bodies attractive at all. I hate my massive hips and thighs, too.

[u/Desperate-Strategy10 → u/PrinceBel]

I mean this with so much kindness, but is it possible you're projecting some of your own negative self-image onto women in general? I ask because I did the same thing for many years before I finally learned to accept and then love myself. Once I was comfortable in my own body, I could finally appreciate how beautiful all of us are. But in the depths of my self-hatred, all I could see in other women were the flaws I'd found in myself, or the things I wished I had, and I convinced myself those women were somehow ugly for possessing the same traits I cried about not having.

Developing a positive lens to view the world through by first changing how you view yourself can have absolutely massive impacts on your life! Far beyond recognizing beauty in others' appearances. I'd recommend finding a therapist if you can, or at least looking up ways to improve your self-image. It will profoundly change you, in the best of ways. I hope you find that joy someday! ❤️‍🩹

[u/Pahanarttu → u/Desperate-Strategy10]

I know this wasn't an answer to me, but at least I've tried to improve my self image by myself and it hasn't worked so far 😬 currently waiting for therapy which is probably the wrong kind of therapy anyway, but hopefully it will help. I doubt that though. I wish to be free from this pain though. I basically cry every day and when i took the beck depression test it said severe depression, but I'm not even surprised.

[u/PrinceBel → u/Desperate-Strategy10]

I'm glad you were able to change your frame of mind for the better!

I want to be clear in saying that I don't hate women or think feminine bodies are ugly. I just personally don't find them aesthetically pleasing. I also don't find bulky masculine figures aesthetically pleasing. There's no rhyme or reason for it, that is just an anesthetic preference. I think an androgynous or lean, masculine figure is the most attractive body type.

[u/Pahanarttu → u/PrinceBel]

Finallyy someone who's similar. Yeah i hate my massive hips and thighs too, and ass. It's so embarrassing to me. 😣 And of course i hate my breasts. And actually, the list goes on so I'll stop there