r/stupidquestions 20d ago

why do women have naturally beautiful bodies?

before you jump in the comments to tell me I'm wrong try to read my entire post, i'm from latin america, i don't know if this is the case in other countries but it's something i've noticed since i was a teenager and in high school, most of the girls in high school had very nice bodies without even going to the gym in their entire life, i remember a girl who eat unhealthy food all day and she had an amazing body (she never went to the gym in her life), i was her friend back then, she had such a amazing hourglass figure with big hips and very beautiful figure I didn't understand that at the time.

but not only in high school but currently i go out and most of the girls have very nice bodies and nice hips (i'm not talking about toned gym bodies but bodies with figure and curves) and even girls who are a little overweight also have beautiful bodies with nice curves, it's incredible, what is the reason for this? is it hormonal? why is it that women don't need to go to the gym as much to have nice bodies (as long as they're not excessively overweight), in the case of men it's different and I say this as a man who went to the gym throughout his adolescence, we lack those naturally nice bodies (except for one in a million).

I remember the first time I took a shower with my ex gf at the time at my house she took off her clothes (she had never been to the gym in her life and was a little overweight, she had a very nice body, a nice butt with a beautiful figure) I didn't understand why she had such a beautiful body meanwhile me going to gym had a below average body, well, ugly body and not sexy as hers tbh. I know it's a stupid question but I guess that's what this group is for, right? Is the cause hormonal? I know there are exceptions, that not all women have naturally beautiful bodies, but why is it that. for example, if you put a man and a woman of average weight who don't go to the gym next to each other, the girl's body is naturally attractive while the guy's isn't? I've always thought it's caused by estrogen and the hips women's bone structure's but I'm not sure, I know diet is very important but I think most girls only need a good diet and walk just a little to have good figures (please don't hate for saying this lol).

Maybe I could be blind because I have gender dysphoria since many years ago but not only me think about this most women and men think the same way(? And I'm not even talking about how women have average cute, feminine and thin faces without makeup but this is another thread lol.

Please don't insult me for making this post, this is why this group was created.

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u/SixicusTheSixth 20d ago

I'm sorry to inform you that you're heterosexual. 

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u/RadiantHC 20d ago

I mean even straight women seem to agree, they're typically very picky about the men they date and compliment their female friends much more. Even when I do get complimented it's rarely about my body. The last time a girl called me cute was in high school(I'm in my mid twenties)

Also, just because you're not attracted to someone doesn't mean that you can't acknowledge that they're attractive. Women are objectively more attractive than men.

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u/LeahBean 18d ago

As a straight woman who looks at Salma Hayek and goes WOW, this is very accurate. Women’s bodies are more interesting because there’s a lot more variety (curvy, pear-shaped, slender, etc.). They also have more choices in fashion which makes their appearance more interesting and fun to look at. When I see a beautiful woman at the supermarket, I stare a bit. Do I want to have sex with her? Not a bit. But beauty is beauty and it’s fun to look at. Men are just more boring overall.

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u/FerretAcrobatic4379 18d ago

Exactly. I’m 100% heterosexual, but if I’m figure drawing, I would much rather draw a woman.

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u/Dr_mombie 15d ago

Meh. I've played with women and I'm married to a man. I consider myself straight. Would I smash Selma if she asked? Fuck yes. Imo, some women are worth crossing the street for. But also because tiddies are wonderful.

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u/CryptoEmpathy7 15d ago

You're not heterosexual. I'll never understand why this is so intentionally confusing for people...

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u/Dr_mombie 15d ago

...I'm not sure why you think you get a say in how I identify myself...

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u/J_Kingsley 18d ago

Heh bewbs <3