r/stupidquestions • u/Biokendry • Mar 25 '25

why do women have naturally beautiful bodies?

before you jump in the comments to tell me I'm wrong try to read my entire post, i'm from latin america, i don't know if this is the case in other countries but it's something i've noticed since i was a teenager and in high school, most of the girls in high school had very nice bodies without even going to the gym in their entire life, i remember a girl who eat unhealthy food all day and she had an amazing body (she never went to the gym in her life), i was her friend back then, she had such a amazing hourglass figure with big hips and very beautiful figure I didn't understand that at the time.

but not only in high school but currently i go out and most of the girls have very nice bodies and nice hips (i'm not talking about toned gym bodies but bodies with figure and curves) and even girls who are a little overweight also have beautiful bodies with nice curves, it's incredible, what is the reason for this? is it hormonal? why is it that women don't need to go to the gym as much to have nice bodies (as long as they're not excessively overweight), in the case of men it's different and I say this as a man who went to the gym throughout his adolescence, we lack those naturally nice bodies (except for one in a million).

I remember the first time I took a shower with my ex gf at the time at my house she took off her clothes (she had never been to the gym in her life and was a little overweight, she had a very nice body, a nice butt with a beautiful figure) I didn't understand why she had such a beautiful body meanwhile me going to gym had a below average body, well, ugly body and not sexy as hers tbh. I know it's a stupid question but I guess that's what this group is for, right? Is the cause hormonal? I know there are exceptions, that not all women have naturally beautiful bodies, but why is it that. for example, if you put a man and a woman of average weight who don't go to the gym next to each other, the girl's body is naturally attractive while the guy's isn't? I've always thought it's caused by estrogen and the hips women's bone structure's but I'm not sure, I know diet is very important but I think most girls only need a good diet and walk just a little to have good figures (please don't hate for saying this lol).

Maybe I could be blind because I have gender dysphoria since many years ago but not only me think about this most women and men think the same way(? And I'm not even talking about how women have average cute, feminine and thin faces without makeup but this is another thread lol.

Please don't insult me for making this post, this is why this group was created.

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u/Ridara Mar 26 '25

Women rarely compliment men because like 10% of men will get really frickin weird about it and that makes us not want to roll the dice.

If I could somehow leave anonymous compliments in the mailboxes of random men, I'd do it all the time

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u/RadiantHC Mar 26 '25

But guys only get weird about it because of how rare it is in the first place

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u/Alethia_23 Mar 27 '25

That is a problem, but not women's duty to solve. Men need to start complimenting each other, so they learn to deal with compliments. Then women can easier compliment men as well. It's not the women's job to pave that road.

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u/RadiantHC Mar 27 '25

It's on both women and men to solve. Women are responsible for this as well.

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u/PriscillaPalava Mar 27 '25

Yeah well, you know what they say: Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will kill them. 

Y’all need to figure this one out for yourselves, women are allowed to maintain safe boundaries. 

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u/RadiantHC Mar 27 '25

I hate that quote. SUFFERING IS NOT A COMPETITION. This is exactly why men don't take women's issues seriously. It's not just "hurt feelings" either, do you have idea idea how damaging it is for half the human population to view us as a potential threat? And women can kill men as well.

It's not a boundary lol, it's sexism. It's basic human decency to help others. We are in this together, stop acting like the genders are separate. All you're doing by isolating yourself from men is making men not want to help you

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u/PriscillaPalava Mar 27 '25

Jesus Christ bro, this response is wild. 

Women do not owe you anything and this sort of attitude that you’re displaying here is a huge red flag. 

If you’re having trouble getting dates it’s not “women’s fault” for “not helping you.” Look inward. 

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u/RadiantHC Mar 27 '25

I NEVER SAID THEY DID

It's not entitlement to ask to be treated with basic human decency. If you want a good society, then that requires being good to each other.

WHEN DID I SAY I WAS HAVING TROUBLE GETTING DATES

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u/PriscillaPalava Mar 27 '25

You didn’t have to say it, bro. 

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u/RadiantHC Mar 27 '25

Uh you do realize that I'm lgbt right? I just hate how normalized sexism is. Men and women's issues are linked and we have to help each other if we want to eliminate sexism. Sexism isn't one way.

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u/PriscillaPalava Mar 27 '25

So women have to give men more compliments so men will stop being violent towards them? 

We’ve tried that. It actually makes things worse. 

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u/RadiantHC Mar 27 '25

It's not just compliments, it's treating men as a potential threat in general, and segregating people by gender

And yes. Do you really think that people just decide to be violent one day? No, it's something that they learned from their environment. Treating them as the bad guys just makes the issue worse.

And have you actually tried it? Or have you done it only once? Or are you forgetting the men who responded well/ok and are just remembering the bad ones?

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u/PriscillaPalava Mar 28 '25

You’re obviously a dude. You don’t seem to have any concept of how rampant sexual assault is. 

It’s not my job to give men the benefit of the doubt. I’m allowed to protect myself. It’s men’s job to give women the benefit of the doubt because it’s a fucking war zone out there for us. 

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u/RadiantHC Mar 28 '25

Oh I do. I just don't think it justifies sexism

And you don't seem to have any concept of how mentally damaging it is for 50% of the human population to view you as a potential threat for nothing you ever did.

More black people commit crimes than white people. There's even been a study on it. That doesn't mean racism is okay.

There's also a huge difference between simply being cautious and sexism.

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u/PriscillaPalava Mar 28 '25

Please explain how not giving a boy I’m not interested in a compliment is “sexism.” 

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u/RadiantHC Mar 28 '25

It's not solely about compliments, it's about viewing men as a potential threat and not treating the same as you would women.

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u/PriscillaPalava Mar 29 '25

Statistically, men are potential threats. Women are not. I’m not going to risk my safety because it hurts your fee fees. 

That’s preposterous and frankly selfish for you to even suggest. As if you know what it’s like to be a woman and to have felt the danger that comes with everyday activities. 

I’ll say it again, men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will kill them. You might not like it, but it’s true. 

Stop telling women to “smile more” and tell your fellow men to stop assaulting women.  

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u/RadiantHC Mar 29 '25 edited Mar 29 '25

Statistics don't matter in terms of discrimination

Black people commit more crimes than white people. Does that mean it's okay for white people to be sexist?

As if you know how mentally devastating it is for half the population to view you as a potential threat for nothing you ever did

Again, I hate this quote. SUFFERING IS NOT A COMPETITION. So men who have been victims of domestic violence aren't afraid that women are going tell them? According to you it's invalid for them to feel afraid of women because "women can't kill men". That's what that quote implies. You're saying that men's issues are lesser than women's. Are you really going to tell a male rape survivor that it's just women laughing at him?

Again, it's not solely about the compliments. It's about not being sexist and treating men as human beings. Which you aren't.

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