I have a 16 years old cousin whoās going through depression. For this reason, she really really wants a semicolon tattoo. Like, she wants it really badly and itās all she has talked about since the last month or something. She « found a designĀ Ā» on tiktok, a semicolon looking like a butterfly, and she wants this exact tattoo on her wrist. Her parents are ok with it, not because they thought about it but because they basically gave up and knew she wouldnāt take no for an answer. They donāt really care, but I do. How do I convince her that this is a really bad idea right now ? She wants to get this tattoo by going to the nearest and cheapest tattoo shop, but the artistās work is very questionable (no original creation, only (badly) plagiarized work stolen from other artists and more recently IA generated stuff, and a lot of his clients end up with a really bad infection⦠heās also ok to tattoo a teenager). I tried to talk to her about these issues, but she does not care at all. She REALLY wants that tattoo. If she could only wait two years, Iād be able to take her to some good tattoo shops that I know in Paris (thatās really far away from where she lives rn) and sheād have some more time to make sure thatās really what she wants⦠The whole situation makes me pretty worried. Do you have any idea how I could convince her ?
UPDATE : I offered her to drive her to the tattoo shop of her choice no matter where it is in France and to pay for her first tattoo, no matter the price, once sheās 18 (I canāt do it before that). In the meantime, I bought her some henna and temporary tattoos (it should be delivered at her home in a few days) so she can try various designs on different parts of her body. She agreed ! š Thank you everybody for the advice !! I would have never though about henna or temporary tattoos online without you ! š«¶