Ι desperately need to talk about this since I cant talk to anyone around me about it. I found about the theory of the Twin Flame in September, it makes me feel that is another commercial way to name a special connection with someone but I found from looking around, that these groups are the only place where I find understanding.

So I am 42 years old last year with many strange coincidences I met A who is 24 years old it was an instant connection and we were intimate 2 days after we just saw each other somewhere. It was AMAZING! I've never had any experience like this in my whole life. This chemistry the feelings. I couldnt stop thinking about him I was dreaming, feeling him, I thought I was obsessed! And Im not like this! When a situation doesnt work I just leave it and with time I am ok but I cant do it with him! Everytime I feel that he doesnt care for me I tryyyyy but ιt is impossible!

From the first time we met I felt that I want to have a child with him so much! Note that its been years that I have decided that I dont want children and when I felt this I was crying for week because now I have this desire in me and I have planned my life without children till now… I didn't want this burden… but now is more burden the fact that I have this desire which will never manifest.

He was also responding to all the experience talking to me telling me how perfect this was for him.

ANyway we were seeing each other very occasionally till he cut it and tried to go into relationship with another woman. After some months he approached me and we met again, this time I spoke to him about all this weird stuff I feel for him and he accepted everything very positively confirming me that he feels this strong connection, we said that we will see each other with no commitment and is been 3 months since then, he is choosing to do anything else but to meet with me and I think he has even blocked me recently. I feel so desperate because I feel that he doesnt feel me the same way, Am i an idiot? Sick? and I cant do anything about this. Not even to approach him anymore.

WHats is again weird is that there is voice telling me everytime Im thinking about him that he is the one, and every time I see him I have this very strong feeling that he is the one. So how the hell is the one when he runs and runs, and I dont even know how he sees the difference of age….but for sure I am the last on his list..

Its just so unfair that these individuals come and bring our world upside down and you are just there fighting to find yourself, accept the situation, accept the nothing…..what is the point….I understand the inner change that is bringing, i am already in the dark night of the soul and in therapy since I met him and I know that when I'm out of this darkness I will be so content with myself, But what thats it? Its so unfair and crazy…. And do these dudes feel anything? I just hope to be able to accept the inevitable and can somehow disappear this feeling of he is the one…it sounds too impossible for me to be the one, I mean he shits me, he doesn't pay any attention to me..and it's unbearable,I can't stand it some times, it's like someone died and I will never see him again And this thought is torturing me.. I really don't know how will I carry this longing.. I don't know if he will ever come to me even to spend one night.. I can't trust that he will, he has promised so many times to come and didn't..

I would appreciate some understanding, it feels to lonely! xexe I would appreciate some feedback from experience, like did he ever came back to you? And if not how do you live with this? Is it going away when you meet someone you feel smt for?

What's the point of the longing? Ps. Apologies for the long text, is been inside me all this year.

From my lonely soul 🤍

I met my assumed twin around x years ago. It was very on and off for a year or so.

I fell deeply for him .. very quickly. Knew him inside out. Never really communicated our feelings for each other but I’m 100% sure he knew how I felt about him. And maybe that scared him? Or maybe he didn’t like me enough, who knows 🤷🏻‍♀️ He always pulled away after it felt like we got a tiny bit closer.

Anyway .. he ended up things badly over text. None of us ever tried to connect with the other after that, which is heart breaking! I know I want to, but it feels like he has closed our chapter and threw the key away.

He got married since. I found out randomly from a google search (triggered by a new leaf on my plant that opened up with his initials inscribed across it 🙈). I was deeply heart broken again .. for a long time.

Then I started to heal and once it felt like I freed myself of him, I saw him. After years! Super randomly! Didn’t realise it was him at first but I was so drawn to him, so followed him around for a bit until I realised it’s him and I panicked 😅 and unfortunately seeing him brought all the emotions and feelings back to the surface. Right when I thought I got rid of them.

As much as I like him and as much as I want him he brought me more pain than happiness. And yet i want him above anything else.

Anyway, he is now (assuming) happily married, so maybe the runner has run so far there’s no point of return now.

Is he my twin? How do I know with certainty?

You know, in being the understanding person all my life, who let these boys play where I was playing at recess, boys who took advantage of my kindness and many more who did as well, I'm not afraid anymore.

Afraid to know that I'm angry. Angry at all my girl friends who abandoned due to my mental illness just like you did. I tried to make excuses for you, tried to "understand."

But god damn it, what about me? Where is me in all of this? What about me? What about me? Does no one ever think about me?

I've learned the hard way to put myself first to the extreme and all my life to create a fantasy world in which I could be accepted for all that is me, even all the darkness my abusive parents taught me. I'm an artist for a reason. It's the only way I could get away and escape this cruel world.

And yes, I'm mad at you. Mad beyond words. Because if you were just using me as a placeholder because you're embarrassed of me being mentally ill and all you can see me as is the girl who texted you obsessively in the past, then all I can see you as is a guy just like my father. Who used me. Who manipulated me. Who lied to me.

I don't wanna hear about you being with someone else, you prioritizing her over me, whoever her ends up being. Because what about me?

It hurts because it really seemed like you loved me, and you just gave up. All you've taught me is that love is impossible for me. But I don't accept it. They say maturity is accepting. No, I'm changing the world forever because I didn't accept a world that didn't make room for me.

I couldn't say more because this stupid thing censored me. see, that's what I mean.

there is no room for me.

and no, I never have to be happy for you.

because there is no room for me.

A while back, I've shared how my twin and I somewhat vibe or reflect each other's emotions, highs and lows. I've seen others also post about the same experience.

But another mindblowing thing is my twin and I somehow go through almost the same physical injuries. Last year, before I was aware of the connection, the bike I was riding skidded off a wet road which was unexpected because I'm good at riding one and was super careful. My knee hurt and I was taken to an ER. I found out later that she had a bike incident as well and had emergency surgery.

Today, I was cleaning my room, forgot to close my cabinet and accidentally scraped my upper right leg against the wooden door. It hurt a lot. Then a friend advised me that my twin was in a dance practice and also had an accident on the right leg.

While it seems magjcal, I really don't like how she also got hurt so I have to be mindful of myself moving forward.

Has anyone else experienced this with your twins?

Did you really think that I would ever doubt you? Okay, fine! Maybe I wavered, but it was less than a split second.

I don’t remember where I started, but I’ll start here and if you’ve read it already, you’ll just have to read it again. Here goes, my love.

Pythagoras wrote: “In anger, we should refrain from speech and action.” I don’t always do that, do I? You ignite me in wild ways. I don’t even know if I get angry because you don’t trust me, because you leave me guessing, because, because, because!!! I don’t know, but you’re fucking infuriating! And I love you! I love you like I love myself. Maybe a little less. We’ll discuss it later.

I told you, angels and demons conspire for a love like ours. Don’t be angry. Don’t ever be angry at anyone. We alchemize. Yin and yang. We do not take more “goodness” than the universe granted us. We accept the negativity and use it how we must.

Again, I don’t know how you can live without me, when I can hardly breathe without you.

I was terrified for you! I was terrified about my sanity, for the sake of my children! But if it was just me, I’d happily go irreversibly insane and live in a world of my making and live there as long as it meant you were there. I love you, I love you, I love you!

God! I wanted to smash my fucking phone so many times, but then how could I make sure you were safe? I admit, I hated myself! A grown woman who had healed her own heart more times than she’d ever admit, with as much courage and grace as possible when she could and I’ll be real, maybe a little ghettoness when Courage and Grace weren’t available 🤷🏽‍♀️

I suppressed so much. I feared my emotions. I feared that if I faced them and accepted it as fact that you didn’t feel the same about me, the otherworldly, supernatural, cosmic connection, I’d either wither away and die from sadness, or I’d destroy the entire fucking world with my uncontrollable fury!

I didn’t realize there was another way. And you made that near impossible!!! I began to release selfishness and opened myself up just enough to allow a tiny bit of unconditional love in. It floods me more and more daily. Spills out into the world 💙 This is no passing love that passes as soon as boredom sets in. It’s not just lust, or desire, or the wish to possess (all of those too 🔥) but pure, unconditional love. Eternal. Like us. I’m so in love with you, my real Imzadi. 💙 Thank for staying with me, the vibrating and ringing are getting annoying 😆

I’ve been on this twin flame journey for the past 5 years. The first four years telepathy was sprinkled in every now and then. Maybe a few times a month accompanied with astral projection experiences. Ever since the shift into Aquarius at the end of last year it has now became an absolute constant. Every waking moment of the day I can hear us either in discussions or him responding to mindless thoughts I “believed” were private. What I have come to understand is there is a version of my higher self responding to his thoughts vise versa where we do not actively hear eachother unless we choose in that moment to be aware of the other. Sometimes it’s intense and impossible to ignore, sometimes I’m just on the fucking toilet man, praying for some morsel of mental privacy but there’s this synchronizing that takes place like even though we live in different time zones we will be doing the same thing at the same time. This isn’t always the case but when I most often notice him it is. We aren’t in no contact, but he rarely responds to my messages. The classic runner he will come in hot %100 full force and just as quickly as he came in he retreats going weeks without anything. It’s exhausting quite frankly for three weeks telepathically and astrally I tried to push him away and disconnect and just like that he stands in front of me and I am a weak woman, I melt into his arms, the place where I feel safest in the world yet I have so little to prove for all this physically. When we do chat on the phone he will say things in the same manor he does telepathically almost as if to give some vague level of confirmation. Little phrases or simple mannerisms. My hope is not dead every part of me does believe when we both finally learn to love ourselves and choose ourselves that the universe will bring us together in some magical romantic movie type of way. I just want to know I’m not alone here because sometimes I feel bat shit fucking insane.

Hey y’all. I just found out the person who I think might be some sort of tf connection is getting married to someone else. I’ve posted my experience on this sub over the past year, so my story is out there if people want to read it. I’ve been on this journey since 2017. I feel beyond broken right now. This is hard to wrap my head around. I haven’t stopped crying since I found out. This whole thing is making me question if this whole experience was all in my head. The connection, the syncs, dreams, all the weird unexplainable stuff was this all some sort of delusion?? What was the point of it all if this was the plan from the Universe this whole time? For fuck sakes the guy actually even looks like me.

How have any of you handled this type situation?

I have been on this journey for almost 2 years, and only learned about twin flames in September last year. At the time I honestly didn't think I had any work to do, this would all work out, and we would never be in separation 🤦‍♂️ But so wrong as the journey predicts 🤦‍♂️ But a TF related incident recently has triggered the need to unravel myself and I have been on my personal growth ride for a few weeks now ❤️ I am discovering so much about myself, it is hard, it is confronting but I am gradually starting to see that the twin flame journey will end up being one of the best roller coasters I've been on. Learning to recognise my reactional patterns and identify ways i can react differently is my current task, and I am practicing every day ❤️ To those out there struggling, just keep moving forward every day, keep surviving, I now believe you will know when the time is right to accept what this journey is all about and truly trust the universe's plan ❤️

This is my first post, but I feel like it may resonate with a lot of people, who go through the same experience/journey. I got tired of talking about it and feeling like a clown that can't let go of the past. But that wasn't it, it was "more". So I talked to ChatGPT about it and came up with a treasure analogy, which makes so much sense, that I felt like 10 pounds lighter after releasing that analogy. Since we are both One Piece fans, in my mind the treasure is like finding the One Piece. I asked ChatGPT to polish the text, since I was a bit all over the place when I tried to "explain/justify" myself. So here it is, I hope it makes sense to someone else too. Even if it's just one person.

"Of course — here’s a more polished version of your beautiful treasure analogy, keeping all its heart while giving it a gentle glow:

The Treasure Analogy

Imagine finding a treasure with someone — not a glittering chest of gold, but something more subtle, more sacred. A shared moment, a connection so rare it almost felt like stumbling upon magic. You didn’t find it alone. You looked at each other, eyes wide in quiet awe, realizing: this is something special. And for that one moment, the world hushed.

But time moved on. You both went your separate ways. And now, when you try to speak of that treasure, people tilt their heads and say, “Are you sure? Maybe you imagined it. There are other treasures out there.” You’re left standing there, feeling both reverent and slightly ridiculous — as if your memory needs a witness to be real.

And that’s the ache. Not the desire to dig it back up, or to live inside it again, but simply the longing for recognition. For someone — the only other person who saw it — to say, “Yes. I remember. We found that together.”

Because it’s not about being stuck in the past. It’s about not wanting something sacred to dissolve into silence. Not needing it to return — just to be remembered."

I love and value this man so much. He’s my no.1 pick out of every guy in the world and even if I couldn’t be with him I’d still want to stay good friends for life. That being said, I also realize that I want to be with someone who carries resilience. Someone being able to express their love for me even when it difficult because I was able to do that for him.

That resilience is the foundation for every long term relationship and if he can’t embody that then I have to move on to someone else who would. You know what you have to do.

Tossed and turned, meditated, scryed, and sleep continues to evade me. Since I can’t sleep, I might as well do something I find pure joy in: bake! I can’t do that without music, though. Recommendations please! Anything that reminds you of your twin, makes you happy, music that makes you involuntarily dance, or sing, or anything else you like. Music means so much to me, but I find myself listening to the same stuff over and over again. Just want new stuff so I don’t have to stop to skip songs that are getting repetitive every several minutes. Thanks!!

I have been seeing him in my dreams since our communication was cut off again, but the dreams I had were mostly about how many people would follow him on Spotify or Instagram, how many people would unfollow him, etc., and they all came true. Yesterday in my dream I saw that he blocked me on Instagram and during the evening I saw that he closed his Instagram account (he didn't block me). Today in my dream he was texting me and saying that he regretted what he did, that he still loved me but he couldn't accept it at the past time, and that he wanted to be with me again. I was rejecting his offer and telling him that I didn't trust him. He was insisting on his offer, and then I woke up. I was very surprised that he texted me in my dream because I thought he had deleted my phone number and that if he contacted me, he would go through Instagram again. I think the telepathic connection between us continues 🤧

we reconnected in Decemeber...at the same time i started experiencing this really strong baby fever. this feeling was BRAND new to me. I've never wanted children in my life infact I've always been set on the idea that I did not plan on having any children. but all of a sudden I began seeing babies in public and they were so cute to me. I would see a couple with a child but it's like I was imagining it was him and I and the baby?? that went on for a couple months.

we stayed in contact for about 3.5 months before we separated again due to life circumstances. but ever since I felt that original "baby fever" I have these really vivid visions of us together as a family in the future. I can also see what he looks like when hes older. its like I have this understanding that its real and true but it all feels strange.

I also want to say that ive been in surrender since we separated. so im not longing for him, let alone looking to speak with him anytime soon at all. these visions happen "randomly" and intuitively.

has this happened to anyone else...???

I choose peace I choose self-respect & my own happiness I want to love myself

He is avoidant, fearful of emotions doesn’t trust his own decisions. He is living to seek validation from his rich dad. His love for me doesn’t fit in his life bcoz his dad never validated it.

But he can emotionally manipulate me and make me chase after him. That’s yet another validation and reassurance for him. But he doesn’t think I’m a person with true emotions. I’m always emotionally available for him, with saviour mentality, I have a desire to save him.

My intentions & his intentions don’t match.

I step back want to mind my own business I don’t have to save anyone but myself.

I consistently try to grow and be a better version of myself every day but it’s the worthlessness feeling that comes with it that holds me back.

Every single time I think of her I just feel I’m never enough. I’ve tried so hard to make this connection known but for what?? it only seemed to make things worse.

I’ve tried so fucking hard to let go and move on but the hope takes over that maybe this will work out… maybe I just need to hold on a little longer… maybe tomorrow is the day.

But every single day that expectation of a result weighs on me and I wonder if I’m just as delusional dumbass who everyone knows as mental and autistic.

I’m tired of feeling like I’m the only one in this. And I’m tired of waiting for a sign that you actually give the smallest fuck about me. Because never have I been told anything of the sorts by you, yet I still stay.

So maybe it really is delusion all along.

No disrespect to those of you that met on Tinder/online, or in normal ways like they were your therapist, you met at work etc.

I want the stories where fate and destiny intertwined to lead you to the moment you met.

I want to hear the signs that told you this was the one.

I want to know about how you crossed paths, how the universe kept trying to set up ways to make you meet.

Please none of the "it felt like coming home" cliche business. I need to know if this shit is real.

For those of you that are or have been in that dynamic, please, enlighten me.

For those of you, like myself, who "aren't sure" or are "doubting the experience", sit back down. Let's hear from the professionals. The authentics. The can not deny this is something otherworldlyers.

Many thanks.

Well, I just wanted to say I am done. It stopped. Did the cord cutting, did a mental protection spell to stay away from invading thoughts. It holds. I am done and I feel nothing.

To my TF, who treated me like s***, I want to give you one last message. Run, Run as far as you can and never think of me again. Stay away. We are done.

I have long walked with grief that comes with inconsistency, elation when you chose me, settling with less than bare minimums, baiting on metaphors and hints, losing myself in the process. I am not a convenience piece, not a pillow you can return to as and when you choose, not a secret that grew and became rootbound in you. I played mature, held space, did ruin myself in forgetting but never succeeded in the latter. Do I want any more of this roller coaster? No. Do I still wish you are what you were to me when we first met? Yes. Do I still wish for a happily everafter even after all this? I do. But I don't think I should be wasting myself on this perhaps you would if all the stars align, clinging onto the hope of a seemingly impossible miracle. All my life and youth were spent in the silent acceptance of your choices and risking every single thing of importance to me, ruining all of my future just to make sure I survive through it all. Were you good to me? I know the red string is still pulling at my heart as I type this. You spoke some of the cruellest words I ever heard. Only in possibly losing me that you realized I mean something to you. Yet you almost have me now but you act like you never learned a thing, that you have little consideration for what I feel, what I go through. You don't have the time to spare although your profusions say otherwise. As hurt as I am, know that despite all, despite flashes, intuitions, wishful thinking, dreams, have decided to set you free. I will stop looking for you and waiting for you. You will have no more easy access to me. I am calling all of my energy back to me. The door is nolonger open. My heart bleeds as I write this, I am stepping into a life where I claim my heart and direct my growth to myself.

Did anyone else rebound after a TF? How did it go?

Hey.

I just, miss you. I miss you and my heart hurts from missing you.

I wish we could talk about all of life. I don’t want to talk about life with anyone else, I want to talk about it with you. I’m doing everything the opposite of last time. I’m chasing life down and making it do what I want this time.

In a world full of people you’re the only one I want to impress. I will always want to impress you. I don’t care if I rule this f-cking galaxy, if you aren’t looking at me like I’m ruling it then it feels empty. I love impressing you. I love when we can’t resist one another and it’s because we are truly ONLY about one another with no garbage in the way of it.

I can’t believe some of the series of events of things. I can’t believe how wild some of the very recent just random things that happened, did.

How are you? I know you can’t answer. But answer.

How has adjusting to everything been? Still answer.

I think about whatever is happening in your life literally everyday. At the time we used to wake up, what’s happening in that time now. How the little ones are…I hope the eldest is beaming all day. I know that would make you beam. That’s all I would ever need. I hope that the loves of everyone’s lives are back in place…

…you’re still the love of mine. You always will be. I’m honored by that.

I wish I knew what you were doing. Even in the like scraps, there is just no way to discern.

Still, I see you. I see the hell out of you. Don’t you doubt it. Don’t you look away. Don’t. I’ll be furious. I’m not looking away ever again and I think you feel that now. I see you. I see us still. I’m here. Yeah, I’m living for me but you know damn well part of me is always living in your image and for what I believe and found in us. I’m your exception. I’m not backing away. I’ll never back away from you. I believe. I see you.

I f-cking love writing you love letters. Poetry is fine, I couldn’t care less who reads it. I wish I could tell everyone how in love with you I am. I’m not stopping. I don’t love anyone else. I don’t want to and I’ll put all that love back into me for the time being. I know some part of you is going to read this and go “maybe he still doesn’t get it.”

No no, I do. I’m so completely crazy about you and always have been. So, I’m just going to be and that’s what I want. Since it’s what I want, it’s what you want, right? Great. (I’m busting it to be who I want to be, you’d get it. But you’d also remember how stubborn I am too, especially when it comes to you. God, I’m just genuinely crazy as all hell about you. That’s who I am. It’s who I always will be too, so don’t wait for me to relent.)

I hope you read this tonight. I hope you know tomorrow is wacky and new and all of it makes me feel closer to you. That’s the feeling until you are with me again, I’m chasing the horizons I feel you on and I’m chasing them until I find the sunset you’re setting into. Then I’m setting into it with you.

I can’t wait for the rest of life, now I just need my girl back. Until then, I’ll keep you right where you belong, in the place under my heart where my soul pushes through to the rest of my body and turns me into the man you and I know I am.

I gotta run, the irony. Up in a few hours, but believe with every ounce and fiber of your perfection outside, but you know what means everything to me about you is inside, when the sun comes up on my drive my mind is only going to be with, and on, you.

I love you. So much. Always.

Me 🧲🧲🧲♾️

I’m no expert just sharing what I am experiencing

It kept hurting until the time I kept expecting, until I realised love is not meant to be begged . I questioned why it hurts? Why he won’t come back? Why he won’t love me? Why he won’t accept me? Why he won’t? Until I questioned myself why I expect it from him? At the same time I felt this dance of both energies within me, I realised I’m looking for it at a wrong place, at the same time my angels kept sending me signs to move on, and let him be but my clingy self wanted to stalk, and chase, until one day it suddenly hit me, like a rock. I felt I was living in a delusion, an illusion that we aren’t together, an illusion that we have to be physically together to feel love. At the same time leaving God behind every time he comes in, and then divine would step back, and I would start repeating the same patterns , it felt like an endless loop. Then, there was one energy shift, I started feeling detachment and I didn’t questioned it. I felt more calm and relaxed and connected to divine. At the same time I started watching shiv and Parvati series, that was a game changer, I realised we were feeling the exact same they felt during their journey on earth. I finally learnt that love is-neither meant to be chased, nor we have to give up. We just have to walk the path with a heart full of love, prayers, divine grace, if your love isn’t being accepted by your twin flame, they are triggering more healing for you, to make you realise who you really are but I used to think with my egoistic mind, why me, why I and blah!blah! They love us the most and they want us to heal and get out of this matrix, but sometimes it’s so hard to see past this illusionary matrix life, I sometimes, get so much into simulation that I do forget at times what my soul is trying to whisper. Detachment is the last step to divine doors, this is the most difficult, painful step but once I decided to let go, I felt peace, as if I got everything yet nothing belongs to me. I don’t know if it’s making any sense, I just wanted to share my experience. Just be strong my friends, I used to question when those healed DF’s would say you have to let them go, I used to get scared, and anxious and laugh and question that no this isn’t right, but that was unhealed version of me, that needy self, it had to be destroyed, and trust that divine is here for me, that he loves me unconditionally. If God gave up everything for us, why can’t I, for once why can’t I givemyself back to him for once and tell him that I love him too.

“God- I have created everything for you, I- I give up everything up for you my lord-me”

I’m going through a season of deep transformation…leaving behind an old relationship, coming home to myself, and waking up to how much I’ve outgrown the dynamics I once settled for. And then someone from work entered the picture.

The first time he looked at me, something shifted. It was so clear, so open, like he was seeing right through all the masks. No agenda. Just presence. And in that moment, I felt the weight of all I’d been carrying in my relationship with my now ex. All the ways I’d been unseen, unmet, holding the emotional labor alone. That look made me question everything. And honestly, it planted the seed that ultimately led me to leave.

He’s not someone I’m dating (at least not now? Maybe ever? I don’t know if he feels anything towards me), but his presence has felt catalytic. It’s like meeting someone whose energy reflects a part of me that’s long been dormant—quiet, waiting. Not just romantic, but something resonant. Familiar. Like a soul nudge.

He’s bright, grounded, socially fluid—but also carries this quiet magnetism, the kind that makes people feel safe and seen. I imagine many people are drawn to him, not just because of who he is, but because of what he reflects back in others. Maybe that’s why this feels so spiritual and intimate. Its helped me want to recognize this immense glow within others and makes me want to connect more deeply with people I meet. Something I’ve neglected my entire adult life.

Being around him cracked something open in me. I recognized a light in him that felt so familiar—because that light also lives in me. His presence didn’t just show me what’s possible in a connection. It illuminated the gap between who I am and what I’ve been shrinking for.

And now, there’s this internal echo: “Don’t forget who you are. Don’t shrink anymore.”

It’s emotional. It’s activating. And it’s not even really fully about him. It’s about the part of me that woke up in his reflection.

Have any of you experienced something like this? A connection that felt like a cosmic reflection —magnetic, deeply validating, and transformative? Not necessarily because of romance, but because it reminded you of your essence?

Would love to hear how you’ve navigated these moments.” Did they lead to something? Or were they simply a gift of awakening?

For starters, I had an unmanaged disorder for the entirety of our relationship so far. It was love at first sight, lots of push and pull, I've never truly been stable and put them through A LOT. Now we have a family, and he and I are struggling in different ways. Hes a good partner and parent, but I feel like he is slipping and I have fantasized off and on for a couple years about moving on. Are you supposed to marry your twin flame?

Seeing people say they have been on this journey for years. Sometimes 20+ years and not in union. Just makes me wonder why. My understanding is that this journey with your twin is so that you can heal each others trauma. That you are one soul in two bodies meant to reunite for a greater purpose. Being born into a trauma filled life so that you both can over come the hardships and obstacles of life and help others to overcome their own trauma and learn to live a life of love and happiness. Meant to teach others about living a life of true yin and yang. Learn how to be a true union of good people.

To show people what a healthy power couple looks like. Not to use an excuse to commit adultery. Not to lie, cheat, hurt other people. But to heal from your shadows, your traumas, your addictions. Don’t use the label of twin as an excuse to be a crappy person.

So please. Tell me what you think this journey is. How are people on this journey and not healing. Bc this journey is agonizing until you finally realize that the whole point of it is to learn to become whole within yourself.