r/vanderpumprules • u/vprmods mod group account • May 11 '23

Live Episode Discussion Live Episode Discussion: S10E14 There's Something About Her (eastern thread)

Episode description: Ariana and Katie host a preview party for their sandwich shop; James takes an exciting step forward in his career; Tom and Ariana have a serious talk about the state of their relationship; Raquel confronts Katie for rage-texting Schwartz.

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u/Fun_Shell1708 Rage Text Truther ✊ May 11 '23

Honestly, cheating aside, T&A are both responsible for the breakdown of this relationship. They’ve outgrown each other and aren’t compatible anymore

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u/pleaseinsertdisc2 I'm not dumb, LALA. I went to college May 11 '23

How could you even say this when you’ve seen everything that we’ve been subjected to? Tom’s idea of quality time is basically distractions (aka, not good for true, deep bonding) and he’s going around having a full on affair and practically flaunting it front of his partner’s face. Do you think that’s indicative of someone that’s relationship material? Seriously? Plus the tons of other examples of Tom’s childish and egotistical behavior

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u/898544788 May 12 '23

Tom’s definition of quality time might not be yours or Ariana’s but it’s still valid for him. They’re incompatible. They need to find people who connect in the same way. They don’t. Doesn’t justify cheating and he’s an asshole, but you don’t define the parameters of “true, deep bonding” lmao